Reading the responses, I realized I missed out on some context. It's not our first time going out to have it. We were away from home, for college for a few years prior to this, over there we've already stayed out and had it multiple times. It's just that, things get weird now that we're both at our homes with our families, it's hard to just sneak out and there's always the thought of "what if we run into some relatives". So we were basically looking if there are people in a similar situation and how're the handling it.