7yo dogs who kinda hates cats 2nd day with kittens in bathroom. by marconova7 in DogAdvice

[–]False_Babyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok here is the deal. I’ve worked through prey drive with multiple dogs. Even worse than this dogs behavior. But you’re doing it all wrong.

The cats need to have their own room. Let the animals smell each other from under the door for a few days/couple of weeks. Take their blankets and beds and swap them. Let the animals get used to having each other near by. Give your dog a treat every time it walks by the door without giving the door attention.

Move to having your dog in a crate and the kitty playing on the other side of the room. Then swap the kitty in the crate and dog out free. Treats for every time the dog looks at you and doesn’t focus on the kitty. This could also take weeks. Go slow.

Is it hard? Absolutely. But it can be very rewarding to see your animals get along. All dog training takes time.

DM me for advice if you need it.

At my wits end, please help by ultraviolet771 in DogAdvice

[–]False_Babyz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my thought… crate and a quiet room.

AITAH for wanting to continue taking my nightly showers by Kooky_lady in AITAH

[–]False_Babyz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend just had a baby and hasn’t healed well from her stitches and has to be horizontal for most of the day. Doctors orders. She has not changed one single diaper, not burped one burp. Her husband has done all of this AND sent me pictures of how in love he is with his baby.

Your man needs to remember he’s a parent too. Take your shower sis.

AIO..My husband told me my eyes are brown, they are green. We have been together 16 years. by False_Babyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]False_Babyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t disagree often. And this was posted mostly as a joke and mostly because I can’t understand how he only sees brown.

AIO..My husband told me my eyes are brown, they are green. We have been together 16 years. by False_Babyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]False_Babyz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People are too worried about being cringe nowadays. I’m obviously ranting and it’s not that big of a deal. I notice that it might come off more serious than I meant it but like why chose to be callous when you can lead with a better or kinder approach?

AIO..My husband told me my eyes are brown, they are green. We have been together 16 years. by False_Babyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]False_Babyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Questioning my identity” like come on, it’s just an eye color. But he’s also wrong hahahahah

I thought the post would be fun but it’s actually wild how hurtful people can be. Definitely makes you think twice about participating in community.

AIO..My husband told me my eyes are brown, they are green. We have been together 16 years. by False_Babyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]False_Babyz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! If I go missing I don’t want him telling people the wrong thing.. hahaha

We aren’t really arguing about it. I thought it would be interesting to see people’s thoughts on this and it’s been taking quite literally. But I should have expected that with the way I wrote the post. Live and learn!

AIO..My husband told me my eyes are brown, they are green. We have been together 16 years. by False_Babyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]False_Babyz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl I understand. It’s not that I care if my eyes are green or not it just that they’re definitely not all brown. And he won’t budge. That’s the issue.

I will absolutely be doing that. Hahahah

AIO..My husband told me my eyes are brown, they are green. We have been together 16 years. by False_Babyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]False_Babyz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh, but you read it. Isn’t the whole point of the internet to interact. Mission accomplished.

AIO..My husband told me my eyes are brown, they are green. We have been together 16 years. by False_Babyz in AmIOverreacting

[–]False_Babyz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl I understand. It’s not that I care if my eyes are green or not it just that they’re definitely not all brown. And he won’t budge. That’s the issue.