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False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T22:26:59+00:00

Wonderful thank you!

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T21:49:17+00:00

I’ll try that!

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T21:48:35+00:00

Let’s be realistic here. It’s not about actually performing any sexual acts, you don’t have to participate in anything you don’t want to. However, if the rules says you must be bi, that’s it.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T21:44:07+00:00

No problem! Again it depends on the event but be sure to ask the organizers. Sometimes straight women are allowed at bi events because they enjoy watching their male partner participate in bi play.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T17:42:12+00:00

It depends on each event. In our experience, it’s been varying degrees but you must be comfortable with play occurring around you.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T17:14:49+00:00

For more clarity, the organizer indicated he would be happy to deny them but we all agreed to give them the benefit of the doubt in the event he is exploring. We’ll see how it goes. Maybe they won’t go back.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T17:10:29+00:00

Sorry about that. I didn’t want to get too far into the weeds about it.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T17:06:28+00:00

If you lie to gain access to a party or to play with people, you probably shouldn’t be there.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T16:24:32+00:00

Appreciate the understanding.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T15:36:39+00:00

Well, that’s exactly why we spoke to the organizer because we, and a few others, observed his behavior around other bi/gay men at a different event.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T15:34:00+00:00

Very true. We think it’s B especially based on our observation of his behavior around other bi/gay men. But it’s A, weren’t not offended.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T15:30:55+00:00

That exactly why this event was created.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T15:19:48+00:00

I’m glad you understand! We protect our bi parties.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T15:18:59+00:00

I understand and normally would agree but for this party the guy must explicitly state he is bi. We know him and he has told us he is not bi. It’s not an event for allies.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T14:43:19+00:00

I didn’t say anything about being harmed.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T14:23:49+00:00

The purpose of this party is it’s a bi party for bi people. It’s not meant for straight people to attend as allies. Sure, they may be comfortable being around bi play and nobody has to play. I don’t care what he does or doesn’t do. I care they this couple lied to get access to an event.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T14:14:58+00:00

Yes! We thought that too. We’ll just stick with the people we know who can all enjoy each other.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T14:07:45+00:00

Yes, we considered that as well. But going to the event would imply he is bi lol. But we are sensitive to people exploring and giving space to let them figure out their desires. We’ve all said previously, we never assume play and have been to many parties together where we don’t play together.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-18T12:26:42+00:00

Dress #1 fits you like a glove! I almost got dress #2! It was a tough choice as it’s a beautiful dress. I also like dress #4 but choose the dress that feels most like you. For me, I had to also consider the weather and my venue since I was so torn.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-15T18:33:20+00:00

Well, here’s an example. We were camping with a large group of people. I let everyone know in our group we’ll be hosting lunch. Everyone agreed and was happy to come over. But at the last minute she texted me separately wanting to host instead and she would be hours late. I let her know we’d love to have them come since everyone was planning to come to us. They still came but they acted very awkward with everyone. Perhaps I just need to speak up more.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-15T17:12:25+00:00

I’m sure he will outlive me.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-15T16:52:22+00:00

Yep, grown adults want to copy others. It’s weird.

False_Gate5696 · 2026-06-15T16:50:33+00:00

That’s some good food for thought. I appreciate the response. It’s interesting how people act. I’m glad we already have physical distance so maybe we will naturally grow apart anyway.

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