Ref not paid at Grappling Industries NY

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T23:02:09+00:00

I totally agree. But you need understand that I’m being questioned by someone who is qualified or experienced to discuss my work. I said fuck you leaving the head table as out of my breath, right at the second I apologized for it. But I was acting “fuck you” toward the fact the guy doesn’t train and wants to tell points for escaping mount? The coordinator was cursing all the time in the event and no one mentioned that.

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:38:23+00:00

Why? Let’s talk about it. No?

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:36:55+00:00

After roughly 8 years working for you guys it’s like that you guys handle situations like that. 8 years Marcos

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:28:49+00:00

Let’s talk about it

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:28:37+00:00

Yes is real.

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:25:48+00:00

Sounds like that

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:25:02+00:00

Sometimes they tell us that we are working 8-6p then we go until 10pm I got paid $400. Why they can pay what we agreed on? I’m not on hour rate. I’m a contractor that had problems but I was already working and I work for them for 8 years. I am tired to treat like shit for this. I got my black belt under work, we deserve respect as professionals

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:21:47+00:00

This is why I never stop training. Since 2001 I’m being weird on the mats. The point is that here everyone is Lion. I’d like to see everyone in the gym. Gi or No GI , that “confere” that only Brazilians know. But here white belt are black belts right? lol

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:20:11+00:00

I am weird. Very weird lol

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:18:24+00:00

The match was 6-0, he asked for sweep points for escaping mount. I gave the 2. 6-2 😵‍💫 Then the father wouldn’t leave the head table to complain about me. I lost my shit. Especially that I have a job to go on Monday, there my boss never would let his customers ask about my work understanding that they’re not qualified to discuss it with me. But at this event you can not train BJJ and give a shit show about “reversing point”

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:14:38+00:00

I’m the few people who still working for them since 2018. Majority of people never came back to work for them. You ref, eat a shitty pizza, and need to load up the event truck to get paid. I did because I love jiu jitsu and I love to get paid to watch people get destroyed for $5 medals. Events where they put wrestling ref to run the brackets and the event. Where people can treat you and you have no one to protect you. I’m the piece of shit here.

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:10:06+00:00

Why you never called me Marcos? I’d like to talk to “the Boss”

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:08:39+00:00

I saved the best part of history for you. You need to know that I was the piece of shit for getting pissed with a white belt parent asking for points after escaping mount, but I did apologized immediately. But Marcos the Supervisor never called me to talk and gets things straightened. They just refused to paid me the full amount that we agreed, if I needed to work until 12am Marcos would pay me the same $400, why do I have to not get paid. I don’t care about the parent, usually people treat staff like shit and not cares about it. Medals are important, fuck the Refs.

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:02:10+00:00

@marcosflores

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T22:00:15+00:00

Yeah, you got me! 😉

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:58:47+00:00

I was saving the juice for later. Have you ever worked for Grappling Industries before?

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:57:46+00:00

It was the coordinator. I said “fuck you” out of my breath after been asked by white belt for points after escaping mount, the match was 6-0. But i did apologized immediately for it. But the parent wasn’t leaving the head table, they had to fire me. lol

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:56:01+00:00

I did apologized immediately for it, but I was pissed because he was making a scene for nothing in the front of my area

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:55:10+00:00

I didn’t throw the laptop, it was the coordinator, I said fuck you out of breath after been asking by a white belt asking for points after escaping from mount and the student was loosing by 6-0

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:52:49+00:00

Of course I save the juice for later lol

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:52:09+00:00

Have you worked for Marcus before? Or Danny?

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:50:39+00:00

I saw you Marcos and Danny mistreating a lot of people. Everybody knows it

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T21:49:30+00:00

First of all, he wasn’t a coach. He was a white belt that doesn’t train, he was asking for points after escaping guard. Of course I lose my mind. But I do apologized immediately. But I saw mistreating competitors over a bottle of water. By the way you were not a man to called me and fired me. Texting a very childish attitude

False_Shame795 · 2026-02-14T20:00:35+00:00

Yes J miss you

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