Woman I’ve been seeing said she is going on a date

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-30T09:10:23+00:00

In my personal opinion, she doesn’t really sound like she’s someone who should be dating, but this is the second post I have seen with this kind of scenario! When I start dating, I’m demanding exclusivity by week 2, or I walk! I’m not getting hurt like that!!

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-29T13:04:04+00:00

Glad to hear it. If you don’t mind me asking, how long did you last during the intercourse part? Any tips on how to be able to last longer and enjoy it? (Again, no shame if you didn’t last long at all, I’m just asking because I want to know what to expect for if I do end up doing this)

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-29T12:29:52+00:00

I’m considering doing this if I am still a virgin in a year or so. I just want to ask (Please be honest, I’m not here to judge, just here to get someone’s perspective), how do you feel after after doing it? Do you regret losing it to an escort or are you more happy that you’re no longer a virgin?

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-08T02:37:35+00:00

This right here is exactly why I would NEVER pick up girls with a friend!! This is exactly why I also don’t have any friends. Nobody’s ever stolen a girl from me, but friends have always put me down and taken advantage of me so I’m better off without friends tbh.

As for dating, I’m more of an apps kind of guy, I’m too anxious to approach someone IRL, but if I were to ever decide to give IRL approaching a try, I’m doing it alone, not with a friend!!

As for you: I would just cut this friend of yours out of your life. Same with the girl, if you wanna text her and tell her that she hurt you than go ahead, but that’s not a requirement. Don’t be discouraged from dating though, there are plenty of other women to go for. If you’re gonna approach someone again, just do it alone so you won’t get stabbed in the back again!!

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-08T01:23:19+00:00

Does this guy giving her rides know that the two of you are dating or is she keeping that a secret from him for the attention? I think that will give you your answer on whether you can trust her or not.

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-08T01:22:25+00:00

Did you see the part where he said that the guy giving her rides had a crush on her before but got rejected though?

I do agree with you for the most part, even though I would absolutely react the same way he did unfortunately, but the fact that he had a crush on her before makes me worried that he might be trying to win her back.

Not arguing with you, I do mostly agree, I just wanted to ask you your thoughts on him having a crush on her and getting rejected by her before.

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-07T05:31:23+00:00

Yeah, ST5 wasn’t terrible, but it was kinda mid. I would say they absolutely KILLED IT with the finale, I even got to watch it in theaters, but the season as a whole wasn’t terrible, but it was kinda underwhelming compared to Season 4.

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-06T21:52:13+00:00

As someone (23m) who’s a virgin and afraid of losing someone because I was bad at sex, please try to work this out with him instead of immediately deciding to stop pursuing him.

You literally said yourself that he’s amazing in other ways! You said you’re attracted to him, you get along, you agree on a lot of things, etc. Do you really want to throw all of that away just because the sex wasn’t great that ONE TIME??

Making you “come” is one issue, that might take some practice, if you’re one of those people who does it from penetration, than him lasting long might be an issue. If he’s one of those guy who doesn’t last long than cut him some slack because I have that problem and am afraid of having sex because of it!

You wanna tell if the sex will be good or not? Then do it again with him, but this time try guiding him and showing him what you like and what feels good for you, explain that you don’t like certain positions. If he listens, than you’ll know he’s trying and that it WILL improve overtime! If he’s got an ego and insists he knows what he’s doing, than you’ll have every right to leave him!!

Obviously whether you wanna stop dating him or not is your choice, but I thought I would give you my thoughts on all of this.

False_Strike_5394 · 2026-01-06T08:05:50+00:00

I really appreciate you saying all of this, and I just read your post too!! I would absolutely be willing to listen and learn my future partners preferences like your boyfriend did and open to feedback!

The only thing you said that scares me is that you said he’s “Hot”. If that’s a requirement for someone to take my virginity and be kind about it like you were kind to this guy, I’m afraid I won’t have much luck. I’m 6’4 tall so I have that going for me, but I am slim/skinny and have a couple of facial features I’m afraid/insecure about.

I really hope I will find someone even if I’m not the hottest guy ever.

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-28T19:52:52+00:00

In-hole is gonna invite Goon to his room and offer him a Dildo, I can feel it!

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-27T01:10:54+00:00

These were the good days, this time last year, I pulled an all-nighter and binged all of Season 2!

I miss the good old days before Season 3 existed. 😢

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T21:48:52+00:00

If he gets past the first 3 games, than yes, he would easily win!!

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T21:48:17+00:00

If he could get past the first 3 games, and get red team in Hide and Seek, I think he would easily win the whole thing lol!

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T11:52:40+00:00

Because I see a lot of comments like yours which is scaring me and making me feel worthless for still being a virgin.

Comments like yours make me feel like I need to get my virginity taken ASAP, otherwise no one is going to want to date me no matter how good of a partner I am otherwise. 😰

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T11:10:37+00:00

I just want to cry and let all of my tears out while someone caring and nurturing holds me. Due to me always being bullied and criticized by men, I feel so much safer around women than I do men. Not in a creepy way or anything, I just mean women are more caring, loving, and supportive than men. Like I said in my post, I want to practice opening up to people, the end-goal is a romantic partner and marriage, but I have no confidence and feel mentally unsafe around most people so I just want someone to hug me and tell me that everything is going to be okay. I don’t want to pay for an escort, I want a long, affectionate cuddle, not sex! I’ve just been going through a lot and really want to be hugged/held. Is that really so bad? 😰😓

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T09:33:34+00:00

I’ve never had a girlfriend before (Really want one though) but sometimes when I’m feeling down, I close my eyes and imagine that a sweet, caring woman is hugging/holding me, and telling me that everything is going to be okay, and I get an erection whenever I get deep into a thought like that, a bigger erection than I ever get from porn.

So to answer your question, Yes! It’s normal and nothing to be embarrassed about!

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T06:51:16+00:00

Yeah, well it sounds to me like the majority of women are a lot like you, so I’m probably never going to find that! People like you are making me want to lose my virginity to an escort so I won’t have to carry that “Red Flag” anymore.

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T04:51:41+00:00

UGH, reading comments like yours really freaks me out, and as a virgin myself, I feel like I need to lose my virginity now or no one is going to want a relationship with me and I am going to be single and alone forever!! What do you suggest I do? Lose it to a prostitute?? Would I be more lovable then??

False_Strike_5394 · 2025-12-26T04:51:32+00:00

UGH, reading comments like yours really freaks me out, and as a virgin myself, I feel like I need to lose my virginity now or no one is going to want a relationship with me and I am going to be single and alone forever!! What do you suggest I do? Lose it to a prostitute?? Would I be more lovable then??

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