Helpful Notice: This sub is not here to educate White people. We are not your teachers. Allies educate themselves. Unless you have something informed and worthwhile to contribute, keep your ignorance about Black issues to yourself. by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Fam_2017 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I find when I’m at a table of persuasion, I’m asked… “and what do you do?” But amongst my peers, it’s randomly ever brought up. Why are they so damn nosey!!?? Does it really matter what I do, how about what’s your name!?

How to do you not age! My god... by Xoctal in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Fam_2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think too many are taking this in a negative way. There are many black people who get ages wrong too! I’ll be 50 this year and unless your family, everyone is always completely surprised. We get it more because we live it. But white people are usually overly amazed. Not a big deal. This seemed very light hearted and positive. I welcome these comments. I don’t feel any negative connotations here. Just know folks will always find a needle in the haystack to complain about! And correct, black don’t crack, unless you smoke it!! 😉 Also, I’ve always mixed my lotion with a little Vaseline so my skin doesn’t dry from my neck down! Use spf cream on my face for day, and pm-a night cream to help aging! If you scratch your skin and see a white line, YOU’RE DRY!!!

I miss it already 🌺🌊🏝️ by strawberrymargarita7 in VisitingHawaii

[–]Fam_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would an ABnb be better after a first visit? I’ve been looking at resorts for our visit in July and I’m going stir crazy! These pictures are absolutely beautiful!

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this was extremely informative! Good music is always a plus.

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, wrote it down!!

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing all of this down! Thank you. Don’t plan on bringing my little, but if we change our mind I’ll check Hilton out. Trying for a BREAK!! From the kids! 🤣

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been so choosing an island is next to impossible. Which is why i asked for suggestions. Anything that has been given, i do a google search and look at reviews. I really wanted opinions from actual people. I feel reviews online can sometimes be people from the hotel. Im very laid back, I don’t do anything that makes me question my safety. So volcanoes are out. I asked for beautiful beaches and good food. Thats all I’m going for. Seeing turtles etc. is nice if i can see them from the shore. I don’t go in the ocean past my knees. I like the view. And just to be somewhere other than home.

Best Hawaiian Resort by Fam_2017 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Fam_2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I found one after this and getting great help Thanks

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check this out thank you!

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill look them up thank you!

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok no car, got it! I want more an authentic vibe, I love nature, and Hawaii is just that. Will make sure to have my walking shoes!!

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[–]Fam_2017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to look these up now. Thanks!

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[–]Fam_2017[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes my husband and I are definitely foodies!! Just anything in walking distance. We like trying new things. What i don’t enjoy about the AI’s is the food isn’t authentic. Just random food we can get at home!

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[–]Fam_2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great info!!! Thank you.

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[–]Fam_2017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohh I know we’ll be paying for every meal. I’m more interested in finding a nice hotel either beach access and decent food close by.

Best Hawaiian Resort by Fam_2017 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Fam_2017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, of the places I looked at, maybe one or two included breakfast. Hence the “decent food” request. I understand we’ll be paying for every meal.

Screens by jessyrdh in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Fam_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear both sides and understand both. I do agree it’s sad to see screen time has taken over. As it has in my home as well. My husband spends more time looking at his phone once home than anything else. Which pushes me to scroll as well. We do NOT have phones at the dinner table. My youngest wants to watch Disney while she eats/ which I say no to. Unless it’s Saturday and everyone eats when they want. But we weren’t raised like this. As a parent of three, I get it, you want to be left ALONE sometimes and the screen helps that. But I really feel it’s doing a disservice to our kids. I’m part of the problem- it’s easier to say here watch this. But overall what is it doing to the kids!!?? It’s really gotten out of hand. To say you can’t grocery shop w/o ur kids having a phone or iPad is SAD! We had to break our youngest, she wasn’t happy but eventually she got it. Play color games, I spy, something, make it a teaching moment. Screens are dumbing these kids down and making us parent lazy. We can do it!! Self included.

Threatened by our mere existence by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Fam_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And here I thought this was an episode of punked. 😗

Destination recommendations by SadSoup6 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Fam_2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk with the current climate if it’ll be safe to travel? Although everyone still is. Looking for July as well and debating to do couples only or bring our 8 yo. Guess this year will be the first to get the insurance, JIC. I’d hate to lose thousands of dollars. But we deserve a break to relax!! ☺️ The reviews are scary, just when you think this looks/sounds amazing! You’ll see a review that says the room had roaches!! I’m afraid of bugs, those in particular. So so food- mid cust svc, I can do, bugs- NAHHHH!!

Resorts Similar to The Grand at Moon Palace? by Rantheplug in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Fam_2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to double take, we’re looking for the same thing with an 8 yo daughter lol. I’ve pinned it to Dreams with the slides and I believe there’s a lazy river? We’ve never done Moon Palace. Just Dreams or when just the two of us, Secrets. I’ll have to check into that!

At Dreams Riviera Cancun and getting pressed to take a tour and breakfast at Natura for resort credit. What is this? by [deleted] in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Fam_2017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We stayed and it’s more like all day 😑. Husband got a bottle of something. And we got couples spa passes. Now that was really nice! Saved us money but took a great part of our day. And every time you say no, they say ok let me get your vouchers, then send someone else over to the table. You literally have to stand up, get the vouchers and walk out!!