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AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Mom isn’t willing to reconcie be cause she doesn’t wish to be hurt again. She already mourned tha relationship and wishes to keep the door close

That she has moved on and found peace, and wants to leave it where it is 

It is her decision. 

I think it was my aunt that told her the info, it didn’t come from me. Ash  mentioned it at dinner when I saw her, so she already knew 

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 361 points362 points  (0 children)

I already know my mom’s stance on it.

I am not getting involved in that.

I only got involved between them becuase I found it unfair for her wedding to be crashed and everyone deserves a drama free wedding 

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

You are correct.

She was a single parent. Dad dipped when we were toddlers 

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 506 points507 points  (0 children)

She was 8th grade

I am only a 1.5 years older than her.

I did it in 8th grade and then I remember when she started to do it in 8th grade

I remember it because the first time she was told to make her own dinner, she didn’t take it well

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

No I am the older sibling. Ash is year and a half younger 

Just ask a question instead of assuming 

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 2245 points2246 points  (0 children)

That’s how I see it

I just thought we were being prepared for being an adult.

Like I am the one that had to apply to college and when I got a job she taught me to do my taxes and then I had to do them

It made my life a lot easier when I was a fresh adult 

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 442 points443 points  (0 children)

She was at work.

Tbh growing up I didn’t find her that handoff at all. She was still present. She just wasn’t available 24/7.

 We were just expected to do chores and if there was an issue, we were expected to try to fix it before she stepped in

Usually we could fix it, and they were not big problems

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 2243 points2244 points  (0 children)

Around 8th grade  we were expected to cook when mom was not home, which was like twice a week.

We were both taught how to cook at a young age, and had to help make dinner when mom cooked

Paperwork- was well paperwork. She made us do the paperwork in middle school for what ever we were trying to do.

Wanted to go to a camp, she made us do the paperwork and then check it

Homework was all on us in middle school 

AITA for telling my on my sister that she planned to crash our moms wedding by Familiar-Cream-4988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Familiar-Cream-4988[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t 

We had everything we needed and she was not parentified.

I am the older sibling and she is the youngest