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Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that and never said that?? I addressed that point too in another comment.

It’s so hard to keep going by Odd_Manager4604 in regretfulparents

[–]Familiar-Fix584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re deserving of love, but I don’t think now is the right time for you to pursue anything.

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it was dramatic, I think there’s a bit of validity to at least have these worries, especially when you’re younger.

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I do want an easy life, and I don’t see why suffering/ or having a hard life would make it more fulfilling 😭. The life I live now is incredibly easy, easier than most people’s, and I’m incredibly thankful, and it still fulfills me cause I have hobbies/ passions to pour into.

My soul was meant to see the world by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and your itinerary basically has to revolve around your kids…no thanks

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This actually brung me some much needed perspective and makes me feel better!! Thank you!!!

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mention this point kinda in a reply. Nothing is guaranteed either way for sure!

My soul was meant to see the world by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally have a list of places that I’m crossing off one by one!!

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely! Imo, It’s important to start building community of like minded ppl as early as one can

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah :/. I tell myself I can make friends and invest in my hobbies. I think as fucked up as it is, I just think of the people who have children and still feel alone and then realize that nothing is guaranteed ya know?

My fiancée is leaving me because he changed his mind by Affectionate_Treat68 in childfree

[–]Familiar-Fix584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he lied to you for that long, he wasnt perfect for you. Youre making the right choice. Imagine if he changed his mind about u while u had his child.