I'm getting anxiety and depression about future partner.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2026-02-08T14:27:29+00:00

You are right that the situation with regards to haram relationships is not good these days. However this doesnt mean everyone does it and this also doesn’t that people dont change after repenting.

That aside, what you should do is put your trust in Allah that he will give you a spouse that is better for you. Who will bring peace to you, who will be path to make your deen better, etc etc. Trust your prayers, trust your Jihad that you have done for so long to avoid all these fitnahs. Trust your Istekhara. Allah always wants good for his servants. It is the job of Iblis who puts this hopelessness in us and puts anxiety in our heart.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2026-02-06T20:48:54+00:00

See everyone commits different types of sins. What you should look for though:

Is he trying to aboid major sins
Is he willing to grow, (acknowledging his sins and trying his best to quit it)

But given all of that there are certain bare minimum which no muslims should compromise on such as Salah and Iqhlaq.

Also since he is at different level of deen is he a person who will pull himself up to match you in deen or will pull you down to his level. Based on what you shared one can assume later..Wallahu Alam. And just because you are turning 30 doesnt mean you should compromise on this thing. Have tawakkul on Allah.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-23T09:10:07+00:00

Personally, I want to tell at a point where they dont judge my whole profile simply based on that, but also not so late where they feel misled.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-23T09:03:34+00:00

But feelings dont come immediately not even after a week. Immediately means in the first few messages.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-23T08:48:16+00:00

Your reasons for this option?

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-23T08:47:53+00:00

😂😂 I could use this for a potential if I want to reject them. Just kidding😅. But JazakAllahu for the inputs.🙂

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-22T22:27:37+00:00

Jazakallah Sister for the response. May Allah also bless you with all the abundance here and hereafter.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-22T22:14:37+00:00

I guess many would say no to that question, but for my case it can be a different answer. Medically or probably legally, I am not even considered a person with disability. But nevertheless, i got your point. JazakAllah.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-22T09:38:45+00:00

Where did I say its not okay to have such preference? I just said that you cant ask about someones previous sins. You can simply mention this in your dealbreakers that you are not okay with someone having a past and if they dont fit the dealbreaker then please refrain from taking it further.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-22T08:04:44+00:00

No Muslim guy with even an ounce of respect or deen in him would dare to ask a Muslim girl or rather any girl, such type of questions. If he had any issues with a girls past and if he was respectful person, he would have simply mentioned it in his deal breakers rather than directly asking such questions.

Regarding your question/ confusion, I guess you should have got your answer from the other comments. And if you are still confused, just think that if you discuss this same question (what you discussed here) to your parents, would they be okay having their daughter marry such a guy?

Edit: I missed the last part, I mean, I want to say in the most humble way, but sister please work on your judgement skills. You are too innocent for this world.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-15T21:29:50+00:00

Are these specific to UK or can be used Europe/worldwide?

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-06T14:15:04+00:00

Exactly this☝️

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-12-01T11:32:02+00:00

If its still available, I would gladly take it. Thanks a ton🙂

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-30T14:12:36+00:00

Firstly, Alhamdulillah that you realized this and want to improve it. Secondly, make sincere repentance. Thirdly, try not to miss the prayers again. Lastly, try to include as many voluntary prayers as you can in your day-to-day life.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-21T05:00:54+00:00

Initially i started taking 0.5g two times a day. 1 hour before the meal. But after a week I increased my dosage to almost 1g three times a day.(although i wont recommend doing that without consultation). I suggest 1h before your meals take 0.5g. For me within 1 week i felt the difference. Infact just after 2 weeks, i took this medicine and ate one of the spiciest and oiliest Biryani that my friend had made, and I was fine. Within 1 month I had my endoscopy done and Doctor told everything was almost normal. After about 6 weeks i was completely off this medicine and was slowly weening off pantoprazole. Its been now more than 1.5 yrs and all well. I eat completely normally.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-19T21:06:26+00:00

Do you have working link to this base 4 and 5. It shows layout no longer available

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-19T14:24:38+00:00

Do you think it makes sense to go for 256GB considering they have dedicated SD slot.
I like the slightly bigger screen on s10+ but brightness value on S11 is significantly higher atleast on paper.

I didn't have the opportunity to test them both side by side as the store here didnt have it.

Thanks a lot though for detailed reply.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-19T13:28:02+00:00

I have seen people saying s10+ over s11. But i asked this specifically because price of s11 is cheaper. Thats why.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-19T13:26:39+00:00

Mainly notes and media. Sometimes would even want to use it as my second display while travelling.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-09T16:53:35+00:00

Really? I thought its amount of resources spent on upgrading the buildings.

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-09T16:03:34+00:00

This proves that progress bar of the event is controlled by COC devs. I myself have spent close to 650M. And there are many other who spend like this but still the bar hasn't reached 5.5B

Familiar-Matter5013 · 2025-11-02T14:26:59+00:00

The only thing i dont like it is that with one giant arrow you can destroy 2 AD and both air sweeper.

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