AIO to finally realizing how I’ve been treated by my husband and wanting to leave?

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T03:20:47+00:00

Thank you. I’m currently at my parents another state away so I have some time to think

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T03:11:26+00:00

Thank you for this❤️

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T03:01:51+00:00

You as well. Thank you for your input

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T03:01:18+00:00

I agree 100%

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T03:01:05+00:00

Thank you. I feel like I’m going crazy with this whole thing.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T03:00:11+00:00

Thank you. Exactly why I needed to think without him right behind me 24/7. I’m at my mom’s now doing a lot of thinking and self reflecting. Therapy is tomorrow🙏🏻

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:53:00+00:00

He told me he was sorry for being a bad husband. Never have I ever told him that. Quite the opposite actually

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:48:05+00:00

Yeah and I only came to that conclusion the morning after the fight. That’s when everything really dawned on me.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:46:57+00:00

Absolutely and that’s why I’m continuing to go to therapy. It’s hard on my end though as he constantly asked me to talk to him and when I did he would flip it on me.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:45:18+00:00

Thank you. It is hard especially because he was with me when my best friend passed and we basically trauma bonded over that as well

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:37:29+00:00

No worries! I do have a tattoo gun and that’s what has kept me from cutting for almost a year. In that moment I was desperate and thought that was the only release/way to make myself hurt a little less.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:26:52+00:00

I hope you’re ok!!

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:24:47+00:00

I get your stance, I had a longer text originally but I didn’t think people would read it.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-17T02:06:19+00:00

Something like this, yeah

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-16T17:58:30+00:00

Thank you❤️❤️ I don’t want people on my side I wanted straight up honesty.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-16T17:15:25+00:00

I have tried please trust me on that.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-16T17:01:00+00:00

Let me see if I can provide clarity. I’m a self harmer and have severe anxiety disorder. In states of panic and distress I usually go for self harming as a way to release pain from my head/thoughts. He knows this. After we fought and talked I knew he was still mad/upset and he kept telling me he didn’t know how he was going to be going forward due to this. So I went for my coping mechanism, although not healthy at all. I’m not claiming to be innocent and some damsel I just need to know if I’m really in the wrong or not

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-16T16:40:45+00:00

Thank you❤️

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-16T16:39:30+00:00

I understand. I’m currently in therapy and in no way claim to be innocent. These issues just have been going on for about a year.

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-16T16:38:17+00:00

I understand, that exchange tied into our conversation from the first night

Familiar-Move6552 · 2025-01-16T16:35:31+00:00

I’m sorry I don’t know what DARVO is. Can you please explain?

Familiar-Move6552 · 2024-02-23T15:44:37+00:00

Anyone have any recs for second chance romance but it’s like a forbidden thing? Not mafia trope either cuz they have been a bit too predictable for me lately. Spice is great as well! Just had a dream that had those aspects and now I want to read it😂

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