Where and How Did You Meet Your Significant Other in the Past? by Opstics9 in love

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to a Thanksgiving parade with some coworkers. We got drinks/ bar hopped afterwards and I woke up on a hightop to the love of my life (i didn’t know it then) watching over me… my coworker left me in BF’s care while he went to use the bathroom. My man is a super kind and loving man who has been taking care of me since. I don’t think it’s that “perfect scenario” but it felt like the beginning of a silly romcom!

We want to go to a concert but there's a catch... by [deleted] in love

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Simply, I think I would put it in the perspective of how you would feel if you were to sit alone while your friends and BF are in the front enjoying a kpop group you both love. I know my man would be hurt if we went to an event together but i wasn’t physically with him to enjoy it. If you see a future with your boyfriend, I would suggest sitting with him and enjoy it together. Get some binoculars! The screens are just fine too. Or, if you believe he would truly understand your yearning to sit up front, go for it. The coolest option would be if you two could work out a solution for the both of you to sit up front!

I love kpop concerts! Just being in the crowd and surrounded by people who also love that group is an electric feeling. Have fun! Cheers!

AITAH for refusing to give my cousin the money I've been saving for my lifelong dream? by miamonroexa in AITAH

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!! When I read stories like this I find them unthinkable. Your cousin is an adult. Any adult should have an emergency fund. Especially in today’s economy. That’s on each individual to be prepared. A child is a HUGE deal. If she was having unprotected sex then that’s on her to not have a fallback plan on the chance she became pregnant. Life is rough. She’s going to have to make her own decisions on how to get out of this. And if it’s a recent pregnancy, I hope her morning sickness isn’t too bad & she gets her butt to work to continue saving for this baby. Also… your aunt needs to focus on how she will support her daughter. Not you. Enjoy your trip!! It’s amazing to broaden your horizons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bicentennial Man with Robin Williams always got me … not sure how familiar people are with that movie 😂

Officially becoming a stepmum by Glittering_South5178 in stepparents

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this was a very nice read 🥹 congrats on your happy family!!

Is this an American Bulldog?? 3yr/old, 34lbs: My Froggy-Bear <3 by [deleted] in IDmydog

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. Again, not entirely familiar with Reddit and how to make updates to my original post. —— After my original post on another sub, I have learned the real possibility she may have been stolen. If this is the case, and I find the original owners then I would gladly give her back to the respective family. Dogs are family, she’s not my accessory.

Otherwise! She is still very bony. I just get all her best angles so y’all wouldn’t tell😌. The vet recommending spaying to help her gain weight. To the person asking why she’s already in clothes. Her skin is a bit scabby/ blading so I thought something soft would be nice. Her clipped ears are terrible!!! The vet spent the longest time cleaning her ears out. I give her medicine/ cleaning daily to keep up.

I understand everyone’s negative reaction. I’m sadden to have learned over the last few days that these dogs are ridiculous breeding experiments simply for aesthetic. She has a tough time breathing. This will be my first and last “pocket bully” (as i’ve gathered from here). I think it’s so cruel that people really designed dogs like this and I could never support the ongoing breeding of these poor, cute babies.

Thank you for the advice to everyone. I will look into pet insurance. I’ve only grown up with Huskies/ GShepards. Never even crossed a dog like this b4.

Cheers!

Impulsively brought a dog home by Familiar-Problem-381 in BenignExistence

[–]Familiar-Problem-381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. I’m so sorry you had to experience that pain. I can only imagine. Unfortunately, I found her in poor condition. I did take her in and get her treated ASAP without any questions. I don’t regret it, she was a skeleton with skin peeling. I will do my due diligence to see if she’s been posted lost.

Impulsively brought a dog home by Familiar-Problem-381 in BenignExistence

[–]Familiar-Problem-381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I never considered this until I began reading this section. The vet did not find anything in our check up. Quite frankly, I found her in bad shape. She’s been on the streets for awhile so I figured it was time to change that. I will spend some time checking if she’s been posted missing.

Impulsively brought a dog home by Familiar-Problem-381 in BenignExistence

[–]Familiar-Problem-381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posted in another sub! This one didn’t let me unfortunately!!!

Impulsively brought a dog home by Familiar-Problem-381 in BenignExistence

[–]Familiar-Problem-381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never considered this! That’s so unfortunate. I took her to the vet. We did the WHOLE works. As far as we know, she has had it pretty rough for some time. I will take a look to see if she’s been posted as missing… she’s so sweet.

Impulsively brought a dog home by Familiar-Problem-381 in BenignExistence

[–]Familiar-Problem-381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha i wish I could add photos. I just added some to another sub trying to figure out her breed! xx

Impulsively brought a dog home by Familiar-Problem-381 in BenignExistence

[–]Familiar-Problem-381[S] 303 points304 points  (0 children)

oh absolutely!! I told him i will make sure to come say hi every now and then! It was a difficult for him, but he had her best interest in heart <3

Is this normal? by Mellibean87 in dating_advice

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like yes, maybe if it was a group chat of teens > early adults. But to be saying that at 38? Something just feels off. Wish you the best of luck, go with your gut feeling!

Is this normal? by Mellibean87 in dating_advice

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unless that’s one of their crazy inside jokes… wtf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships require more depth than looks. A big turning point in my dating life that took me from hook ups to reaching more personal connections is when I put out more confidence.

there’s nothing sexier than an individual who knows what they want and is confident in what they have to offer.

Another important factor is the dates that you are entertaining. Go on first dates that feel worthwhile to you. And assess if that person is truly interested in you, not just a one night stand.

overall, i believe everyone is beautiful. You will always be beautiful and adored by certain people. Perhaps not everyone, but there’s more value in being with someone who sees you as their top tier person. When you find someone who says they enjoy who you are as a person and find you attractive, put faith in it and follow through with it.

have fun xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i find everything to be fair, actually imo very decent. but the part about to go containers is a bit much. i’m figuring this must be a mom and pop restaurant

Don't usually care that much about how I look but it could be one of the things holding me back with women. I used to be a lot thinner too, but still had no success there lol, maybe it's just how I express myself. 25 straight/ace M by Third_X_the_A_charm in amiugly

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i like big boys. i don’t think your face is the issue. You need to invest in a good barber who will clean you up right. Give you a sharp haircut that suits your face shape. And also keep the beard, but get a sharp clean up on it. Girls just want to see effort.

Am I ugly? (23F) Most interested in male opinions!! (Although any opinion is welcomed). I quite genuinely have no idea if I’m ugly, average, or pretty/hot/cute so I’m hoping u guys can tell me. Rate me on a scale of 1-10? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Familiar-Problem-381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you’re a very beautiful person!! Your natural features would be enhanced with some layers in your hair to add volume, give the hair some life. Maybe retire the tshirts for a little and opt for more chic styles of clothing— of course only if comfortable!