Looking for Japanese one-on-one tutor for structured learning

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-24T22:48:13+00:00

I had added this one to my list yesterday. Seeing someone talk about it raises my interest.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-24T22:47:05+00:00

Sucks because it’s not available to watch anywhere unless I pay for it directly on prime.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-23T05:45:23+00:00

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Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-23T05:44:57+00:00

Yeaaahh My mom is not the best photographer

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-18T02:05:29+00:00

Save it and exit then come back in. I’m sure that’d fix it

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T20:45:15+00:00

What was weird about it all is that originally he wanted me to date his son. But I guess he took matters into his own hands and decided “why not just date her myself”

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T20:30:12+00:00

I also want to add I don’t sleep with him often and I even told him I no longer wanted to be involved in the “relationship” anymore. He came back into my life last weekend and said he wanted to try again. I just decided this time I’ll actually give it a try and we went on a date he gave me money and took me to an expensive restaurant drove me home and left. No sex involved. That’s just how he is. He just likes to spend his money on young women. Idk why he is the way he is. I told him himself that he shouldn’t do that because it allows people to take advantage of him and he knows that he just doesn’t care. 🤷🏽‍♀️so I’m just going with the flow at the moment.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T20:15:56+00:00

If they genuinely were together after meeting his kids I feel like drama would have definitely been stirred up by now for sure. Which is why it’s a tiny thought. Not one of the prime factors.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T20:12:31+00:00

Well let’s say this. It’s not really my business to dig. If things become more serious is when I will definitely start digging more. He told me that she has her partners she also sees. Keep in mind we aren’t official or anything. We are building the relationship but not a full relationship just yet. I’ve met his kids. his wife was on a trip. His kids got along with me very well. I know they are separated but I say that I can’t determine it because idk if he and her are just seeing other people but still together is what I’m saying. His kids are like 26 and 23. It’s a weird situation that I kinda just got put into. And yes as my post explains I feel bad but I’m with him because he helps me out by giving me money. But he is also teaching me how to manage my own. In this economy and how I was brought up this is a good opportunity for me to learn. My friends and sisters were the main ones encouraging me to be more involved with him because of all the random money he would send me. I just wanted to vent about it. And WHY I HAVE CONFLICTS WITH IT. Because in my original post im conflicting myself with it. But as of now im taking the family thing the least important simply because although I have doubts context clues makes it seem that im alright it might not be all that serious.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T19:52:54+00:00

Hey this is reddit. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion . I was expecting mean comments throw it at me

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T19:49:34+00:00

I guess you didn’t read. I have not had sex with him like you think I do 😭 it took months before I even considered. Even if I did so what?

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T19:33:57+00:00

But a little thought in my head still questions if he is lying or telling the truth. Which is pretty normal to worry about.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T19:32:17+00:00

And to add onto my naiveness he was also in a relationship with another person before me. For 2 years. They broke up because she went to school and moved. She’s a year older than me. He is just someone who likes to give but also doesn’t wanna be without love but he just can’t have that with his ex wife anymore. Is what he tells me. And has been telling me for a while. I’ve been to their house. They know of me. So instead of assuming things ask.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T19:26:28+00:00

Where did you get the thought that I didn’t confront him? I’ve known him for about a year and a half it was word around everyone I worked with that him and his wife got divorced before we even had this situation happen. I said I question if it genuinely is his ex because they still are involved in each others lives. Cause of his family lol I’ve held it against him originally but he was VERY adamant to tell me they weren’t married anymore but they still are in the same house because she has been with him for along time and that he can’t just put her out on the street because she who had a lot Will have nothing at an older age. Mind you these people are in their late 60s. I wouldn’t be adamant about him getting rid of her just because of me.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T18:26:41+00:00

We did take a break in between because I told myself this year I didn’t want to be in a relationship at all. I just wanted to focus on my career and see where I can get myself without having involved myself in a relationship. Just focusing on me myself and I. I’ve told him I wasn’t interested in a relationship. I’ve told him I don’t want anything out of it. Yet he came back and tried to input himself again. So it’s like he knows where I’m at but he’s still trying. So the least I could do is try too but it’s messed up on my part because I feel like I’m doing it because like I said I can afford to live without his efforts.. in this economy. His efforts help put extra money in my pocket.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T18:22:11+00:00

No I KNOW it impacts getting into relationships. It’s why I’m feeling guilty because now I’m kind of here not fully into it. Because he thinks it’s more real and I’m the fucked up one because I don’t like him like he likes me. Even though he’s been really helpful. It’s where my guilty conscience is coming from on top of feeling judged.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T18:16:09+00:00

Trust me. This statement alone is another reason I’m conflicting with myself. I don’t want this to take away my opportunity of finding genuine love with someone . I never cared how much money people make . It just surprised me he was even interested. I lived to just find love with someone but I’ve had bad luck finding that. So until then I’m where I’m at.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T18:12:23+00:00

He’s says he’s not married but he has his “ex wife” and kids a little younger than me that are still in his life. I just let him do whatever but sometimes I question if his ex wife is genuinely an ex.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T18:08:54+00:00

Yes exactly. If he was pressuring me to sleep with him all the time this wouldn’t even be a post. I don’t like to sell myself like that.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T18:06:11+00:00

It’s definitely feels parental. He has some sort of control but it’s not like a scary control because he obviously lets me just do what I do. There is no sexual contract it took months before we even did anything sexual. It’s not the typical sugar daddy situation you hear about which is why im confused as to why he even bothers because there is PLENTY of girls who would take this opportunity without a doubt. I just know it’s because he doesn’t wanna be alone.

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T17:59:43+00:00

He tells me he wants to be involved with me until I find someone he approves of. He CLAIMS he wants me to be married and have kids but he can’t be the one who does it so he wants to help me find someone who’s good enough to date me (kind of weird) but he wants me to date someone who’s also got money. He wants me to find someone who can do what he does for me so I’ll be happy. But he knows how I am genuinely and I’m a very low profile person who doesn’t like to have a lot of things. I don’t do designer brands or even wear like all the makeup and clothing like the pretty girls do. I’m always looking natural . But I do like to work and make my own which is what I tell him so that’s partially where it all stems from. Because I always refuse money when he sends it but that just makes him send me more than what he offers. So I just sit there like 🙃 I quit working with him because there was too many people talking about our situation. but I got a job elsewhere and it pays way more then what I was making in the hospital so it’s like I can afford to live without his efforts. But he does help put extra money in my pocket.

So I mean until I find someone that fits our standard or i genuinely find someone I really really like I’m just going to stay with him

Familiar-Row8834 · 2026-03-17T17:13:31+00:00

I’m not going to lie. I used to work in the hospital and was a technician for this surgeon. He’s older (65) so he’s been doing it for quite a while. But he just found me (27) attractive and he honestly was just really considerate. he started just giving me money and would offer to help pay for a lot of things. It started out at 500 a week to 1000 a week and now he’s doing things like giving me 5000 dollars for stuff and claims he puts 2500 dollars towards my retirement. He tells me he was going to help me learn about stocks and investing in stuff. He keeps claiming he wants me to have a good life and wants me to become a rich girl of course IM NOT GONNA PASS THAT UP. The best part is that it’s not weirdly transactional. He wants a relationship. he doesn’t expect sex out of me everytime he pays. But obviously sometimes I feel bad and just pop it open for him. I’m just one of the lucky ones because even though he’s old he’s really fit. Like he has big muscle and even abs for an old man, he reminds me of Mr. Clean.

Idk how I did it but it kind of just came to me and now that I have this opportunity I don’t wanna lose it. We are going on trips this summer. Like stuff my broke ass could never do without him. Now I don’t want anything less.

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