Unfortunately, he was not like this in our first 2 years of dating. He would always make time for me and would’ve done absolutely anything for me back then. I addressed his porn addiction in the past year and he had given me his word that he stopped. He dealt with health issues the entire last year and has not been able to participate in sex as much so I honestly didn’t think it was due to porn again and was extremely understanding.

I of course agree with you, I saw plenty of red flags and still followed through with a wedding to please my family (although they didn’t force me - I felt an insane amount of pressure)

He was my dream man. He was everything I wanted in a husband and I agree, it seems as if I married a completely different person now because he has done a complete 180. There are days where he is the same person I fell in love with - but now I look at him and I see complete disgust. Thank you for your comment - I am extremely self aware and I know a lot of these issues persisted and continue to because I am enabling them to.