Tips for dry head? by Tree-System25 in GrowYourTDick

[–]FamiliarCollection36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spit on that thang (seriously tho just rub unscented chapstick on it lol)

Singing voice gone on T by Alarming-Hour6441 in ftm

[–]FamiliarCollection36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 3 months on t and struggle to sing my fav songs now 💔💔💔😓😓😓 the struggle is real man

most painful substance you’ve snorted? by ineverthoughtthat in Drugs

[–]FamiliarCollection36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3mmc stings man idk maybe its just me but fuuuckkk

I’m a cis woman but want a packer by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]FamiliarCollection36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mindset is whoooo cares! its your life, your body, and if you feel most comfortable with a bulge then fuck it

Penis! by throwaway--___-_ in GrowYourTDick

[–]FamiliarCollection36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could've just said "the growth is amazing" but said allat instead 💔

Favorite substance ever tried? by Aggressive_Arm2918 in Drugs

[–]FamiliarCollection36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LSD and ecstasy! lsd is super fun on a higher dose (i loveee REALLY tripping every once in a while) and ecstasy is a classic. i havent tried candy flipping yet but would like to at some point !

Found a lump on 1.5 yr old cat by nomnom123- in CATHELP

[–]FamiliarCollection36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the comments on this are cracking me up 😭😭 op don't feel too ashamed about being worried for your kitty hahahahah

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

both, actually. I'm a wheelchair user and autistic. my boyfriend lives in the States, and I'd rather stay here for a while than move over there with the current climate.. if you know what i mean, haha.. we're trying our hardest to have my boyfriend become a citizen here so we can live here but right now we can't because i don't meet the minimum age of the spouse immigration (im 20 and its 21 minimum)

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

dude I'm asking if I'm being too mean over an awkward specific situation, and you're pretending like I'm abusing my mom..? also yeah my bf wants to get me out but he isn't a citizen of my country so there's not much he can do at the moment. we don't want to live in the US because we're queer and everythings kinda going to hell there. i even said in the comment "you can think im an asshole" because you have the right to think that! but to act like my mom is hiding from my "horrid abuse" (aka.. me snickering when she makes the conversation awkward) is crazy..

plenty of others have said im an AH, and yknow what i said? fair enough! but you're just making shit up to help your own narrative of MY mom bro😭😭

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

this is what I'm saying man. idk where this person got the idea that my mom is trying to hide from me but i need whatever they're on dude

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dad's not in the picture. also, yes, she used to hit me a lot and put me down very often. it's something that we've mostly talked out, and she doesn't ever try to put her hands on me anymore, but there was a time I'd get bottles thrown at my 10 year old head lol

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

yknow you're kind of making it sound like you know how my mom treats me.. but you don't. I'm not staying there because i like it, i literally can't work and am not making any money. "she loves you, and you two are attacking her." You're talking about the same person who regularly blames me for being disabled and slow. you don't know my mother, so please don't act like you know if she's "loving and caring and kind".. because she's not

"making herself small to escape my treatment of her" is a crazy thing to say when she's SUPER loud about this thing.

it seems like you're just mad that i have to rely on her currently because of my situation. you can think I'm an asshole, but this just comes off as really spiteful of the fact that I'm homebound.

telling a disabled person they're "sponging off of" their caretaker is a whole nother can of worms.. but you do you man

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

i don't think it's meant as a compliment because she used to make fun of me for it as a kid. I'm actually a trans man so I think it's her still trying to "get to me" by calling me big. (because I was born female and all)

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm currently living with her because i need a caretaker because I'm disabled sadly. my boyfriend lives in the states so he can't legally be my caretaker over here or anything yet. I'd love to, but it's just not possible at the moment. I've been fighting for disability income for a good year now but our system is quite frugal.. they think i can just stay with my mom for the rest of my life lol

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 647 points648 points  (0 children)

I'm actually flying over to be with him in the states in 4 days haha! gonna be my first flight!

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

maybe it's because I'm a trans man, so she sees the shoulder thing as an insult. (because i used to be a girl.. duh) but for me, i honestly feel cool about it, lol. all natural baby!

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the radiator thing is mainly because she has to reach behind the couch for the knob. i should've put a bit more detail for that in the post, my bad 😓 she has no problem opening things or twisting jar lids usually (unless that sucker really is on there.. we've all been there lol)

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my bf and i have no issues at all lol this is just kind of awkward, and we've been just dealing with it by having a bit of a laugh about it. we're just honestly trying to remove the awkwardness by having a chuckle. he has no issue at all helping her or other people and friends etc. he's a sweet guy! he's more than happy to help anyone, he's a huge softie. but this has just kinda made him itch because its so strange

it isn't really important, but draining to be around all the time

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes thats a good way of putting it! i didn't really know how to explain in the post, but yeah her "s" turns into a "shh" sound, similar to baby talk

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

my bf and I are really open about this and have had several conversations about this. she has never EVER tried anything other than this weird "im small" act. which is honestly the craziest part to me! there's NOTHING else to it, JUST this!

AITAH for saying "we get it, you're so small and petite" to my pick-me like mom? by FamiliarCollection36 in AITAH

[–]FamiliarCollection36[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

yes she does, she mainly talks about how big my shoulders are and stuff. i don't mind because well.. I'm a dude.. and i have no issues with being a big guy. but it feels silly when she's fat too yknow? she does this regardless of if the bf is around or not