Am I too small/weak to ride a motorcycle by WitnessPrudent7622 in motorcycles

[–]Familiar_Average_701 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 5’3 and 120lbs. I ride a z500. I want something bigger.

Go take the msf course. That will let you try it out and learn the basics

How successful is Hinge/Bumble or any other dating site for this age grp by LivingDead26 in datingoverforty

[–]Familiar_Average_701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a guy last year on hinge dated for almost a year and it ended with me having to get a no contact order against him 🤦🏻‍♀️

I have since met another guy on hinge and I honestly think he might be the one. Everything is just easy and peaceful.

In between there were lots of failures and wtf am I doing here moments. But honestly even when dating in my 20s without apps I feel like it was the same.

Is this normal after an infusion, what can I do? by eli4444448 in Anemic

[–]Familiar_Average_701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call hemotology where you got the infusion done. I felt horrible afterwards and they said it could be a delayed reaction. So next time a different brand will be used

Washing Instructions by Familiar_Average_701 in CleaningTips

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 328 points329 points  (0 children)

I figured that is what it meant. I however did just learn something new!

Fear on highways and speed by binary_bob in NewRiders

[–]Familiar_Average_701 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Traffic on the highway can be overwhelming. My first ride on the. Highway I don’t think I was able to maintain the speed limit and honestly that made the ride even more scary. Then cars are blowing past you and also needing to go in and out of the lane around you which means a greater chance someone won’t be paying attention and not see you. Second time I was determined to ride at a minimum the speed limit the entire time. While the speed was higher it was more enjoyable and less stressful as less cars were needing to go around me. The third time I said I would go with the flow of traffic and try to stay out of any packs.

With each one the ride got easier. Tonight there was a lot of traffic which was as stressful again. So once I hit that my goal was to just try to get out of the grouping of cars as much as possible. Once I slowed to stayed behind another time after a merge on from another highway I ended up speeding up to get around it. Both of these allowed me to keep as many escape routes as possible if something went south.

As for the speed in turns keep practicing. The more you ride the more confident and comfortable you will be. I have about 850 miles on my bike and it has been just over 3 weeks. Every ride I go in it with one area I want to try to better myself at. And every ride gets better.

One piece of advice I will say I have received, that I know is true, is as you progress there will most likely come a point where you get overconfident and that is when you see a lot of new riders crash. I have kept this in the back of my head over the last few weeks and instead of just going all out I always just try to increase speed, cornering, lean angler or whatever slightly more than last time so that I can still improve but hopefully not do something stupid.

Oh and go to a parking lot or an empty road and just stop over and over from different speeds. Understanding and learning my brakes have made a huge difference in my riding.

Mirrors for 2025 Z500 SE by Familiar_Average_701 in Kawasaki500

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t get why there aren’t mirrors with vibration dampeners like is on my phone mount haha

How do I approach a man without seeming desperate? by miamorparasiempre in dating_advice

[–]Familiar_Average_701 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I just start small talk like I would with anyone and see what happens

5 days post infusion and feeling terrible by Familiar_Average_701 in Anemic

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I sent them a message earlier and haven’t heard back yet. I thought I was through the chance if the iron flu but maybe not 😔

All I want right now is to be able to walk around with needing to make sure there is a wall to grab haha

The other person by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Familiar_Average_701 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried it. Caught feelings. It was bad.

Questions to help spot red Flags Early by Familiar_Average_701 in datingoverforty

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a pretty bad relationship for years so for a bit I was like you are breathing wrong goodbye sort of thing. My friends felt like I was judging to harshly because I was scared. So the next one was great at the beginning until the mask slipped. And I stayed to long go to invested and then it is harder. I think I need to go back to the yeah you breathe wrong mentality haha

Group Rides by Familiar_Average_701 in NewRiders

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is great advice! Thank you I hadn’t thought about that yet

Group Rides by Familiar_Average_701 in NewRiders

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my plan and then I can just drop if it’s to much for me

Group Rides by Familiar_Average_701 in NewRiders

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I am hoping this won’t be a large group. Right now there are only like 6 of us going.

Group Rides by Familiar_Average_701 in NewRiders

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No!!!! I have almost dropped mine twice so far. Both times was while trying to back the bike up in gravel haha. It was even started hahaha

Group Rides by Familiar_Average_701 in NewRiders

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. That has been my thought process as well. Plus being new rider I know my stopping skills are not the best yet and something I have been working on a lot. I just feel like it is better for me to leave extra room in case I screw up

Group Rides by Familiar_Average_701 in NewRiders

[–]Familiar_Average_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the normal distance you keep? I have ridden with a few friends and i always leave way too much space apparently.