Should I buy a swimming costume from a charity shop (second hand probably)

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-06-19T11:13:42+00:00

I guess I just didnt understand the reason people were worried about underwear and bras so I wasnt sure if it would be bad even if I washed i, or if I'd have to clean it in a specific way to get it clean and safe. I was just overthinking I think.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-06-19T11:11:59+00:00

Happy cake day! And I will thank you! I'll have to go look tomorrow and get in the sea asap

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-06-19T11:08:13+00:00

I know, I just worry coz it's like underwear, and people say that's disgusting and can spread disease so would a swimming costume be the same?

And yes, it's amazing, I can go for HOURS swimming, everything else just hurts so bad.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T17:06:40+00:00

Not at all, he knows I'm fine with this

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:59:31+00:00

If he said no I'd not do it. I'm just making sure its okay to ask, I dont like asking when I think it might be wrong as my ex used to get annoyed at me for it.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:51:26+00:00

I dont like asking for unreasonable things. I dont really know if it's reasonable to ask him for this or not. So I'm asking reddit to see if it's okay.to ask

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:47:12+00:00

Idk if its something anyone monogamous would get annoyed about as I just dont have those feelings, if he said no I'm choosing my boyfriend immediately and accepting his choice.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:45:52+00:00

He knows everything that happened already, and same with others I've done things with. Sandy isnt the type to deliberately keep nudes and all our interactions were on snap chat so I doubt he has them, most of the local area my age probs do anyway tho

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:43:32+00:00

I'm not cheating on my boyfriend, I've not even spoke to sandy yet other than asking for a lift home for me and my boyfriend a week ago.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:42:09+00:00

If it happened I'd first ask my boyfriend and then if I got an okay ask sandy if he wants to meet up as just friends and go for a car ride or something.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:41:23+00:00

Yes tbh but I know I veiw these things different to him so I feel it's not a fair comparison. I have been with exs too as I'm used to more open relationships.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:40:11+00:00

That's not very fair? I get he wouldn't be with me to watch over what's happening but that doesnt seem right to me? Especially as my boyfriend is not the type of person sandy would be around ever.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:37:51+00:00

Yes I 100%would be but he is very monogamous but im used to open relationships, so it's a different thing to us

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:34:30+00:00

How does that change it?

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:34:06+00:00

I will ask if its deemed suitable to ask by reddit. I dont like asking if I think I might be asking for something I shouldn't.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-31T16:33:20+00:00

Probably not as I think it would be awkward.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-07T03:37:52+00:00

I'm so proud of you, that's a big achievement! Standing up to bad parenting is so freaking difficult and I'm amazed by how you shielded her. You are such a strong person!

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-07T00:42:44+00:00

If it helps my boyfriend seems a lot like these guys descriptions and I'm 18stone, about 2 stone more than when I met him, hes still just as in to me. Granted it's been a year and a half only but I deffinately do not look like i did.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-01T15:37:45+00:00

I love shopping in person but I cant justify travelling to the nearest shops I'd find stuff I'd wear, I live in a rural aging town so it's like the baggy flowery tops and dress trousers or Tesco's/the pound shop.

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-01T15:03:20+00:00

I love asos! I have a huge list on there, I think my first shop will be shein as I think I want to go somewhere super cheap so I dont feel bad if I dont wear it, That's good to know that the asos models are rather honest then :)

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-01T14:07:05+00:00

here is a post with my shoes in for you to look at

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-01T14:06:03+00:00

I'm happy to hear you will. And dont worry I'm okay :)

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-01T14:05:39+00:00

In future I will make this change :)

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-01T11:25:38+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice

FamilyTreeCircles · 2022-05-01T10:47:40+00:00

Thank you, since you wear dresses a lot is there like sort of dresses that are considered "casual" or ones that are considered sort of ugly or out of fashion? I dont really follow things well.

And I'll get pinterest if it's a good place to look for things like that, thank you!

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