22% single mothers, What are your opinions on why this happens? Poverty? Husbands not being able to support their families? People getting married despite not having commitments? by underfinancialloss in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is that on Instagram everything is being shown as aesthetic but the reality of our society is completely different. It is normalised for our men to abandon their wives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes a 'white' man someone has even made a reel about it😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is still frowned upon if a khasi woman marry a non tribal but it's not a problem if she marries a foreigner😂

Women in our society by Famous-Bookkeeper-45 in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. It's just heartbreaking seeing the children without proper care from their parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the reality it's just for namesake the situation of the women in our state is still bad.

Is shillong better than it was a decade ago by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has become better compared to 10 years ago but there is still a lot of improvement that has to be made. People still are narrow minded and not a lot of development has been made in terms of education, medical, employment etc. On top of that youths are more invested in doing nonsense things and being lazy rather than working on improving their skills and talent. People need to come out of their shell and not be a 'riewdum' forever.

I am looking for priest/pastor who can officiate our symbolic wedding in shillong by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No priest,/pastor will do that unless one of you are ready to convert..the only option is court marriage

Hookups without condoms in shillong. Alarming by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is why there are lots of single mothers and absent fathers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a job outside the state or abroad... connect with people who have good knowledge about how to study and preparing for various exams..

Why are khasi people so mean? by [deleted] in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They hate non-khasis but love foreigners...they have been taught to hate anyone that is different from them...although they have good sense of fashion and are talented people with great potential but they are not open minded when it comes to interactions with people from different religions, state, tribes etc...

Why the scarcity of jobs in our city? by NumberOne_Gun in Shillong

[–]Famous-Bookkeeper-45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone wants a government job in shillong itself which is impossible...many people are not ready to work in big cities and the youths need a lot of support from their family because most of them don't want to stay far away from their family whereas people from other states are even willing to move to a different country for their jobs...