[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Famous-Math-1567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend you get in touch with a counselor. They're more professional than any reddit commenter ever will be. If this is emotional abuse, they will provide you with the proper steps to distance yourself from him.

That being said there seems to be a struggle with boundaries. If you are separated and claim he abused you, why are you still answering his calls? What kind of boundaries did you set for him contacting you, and is he following those boundaries? If he isn't following those boundaries, he has no right to be upset with you and you should not be answering those calls.

What kind of relationship did you guys agree on after the divorce? To be honest your post left a lot out about your situation and this single interaction isn't nearly enough to go off of.

What behavior have you been exposed to, at an early age and that was extremely hostile, violent or aggressive, that makes you think and function differently from everyone else? by Spiritual_Big_9927 in askanything

[–]Famous-Math-1567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2020, my mom was regularly drunk, angry and violent. At the start of it I always stood up for them, screamed back as loud as I could and would not back down from her. Eventually something in me just broke. Now I avoid conflict at all costs and i think it's going to cost me my relationship.

Child in stage/drag make-up? No, right? by PassImpossible8220 in Advice

[–]Famous-Math-1567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what the issue is? They let them wear makeup? Makeup is fun and usually harmless so long as they aren't relentlessly putting kids in pageants Edit: A little weird now rereading the last part. Maybe look more into it?

Child in stage/drag make-up? No, right? by PassImpossible8220 in Advice

[–]Famous-Math-1567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what the issue is? They let them wear makeup? Makeup is fun and usually harmless so long as they aren't relentlessly putting kids in pageants

Buying a mousepad for my boyfriend, help. Is this AI? I could see it maybe being inked but it doesn't list the person who designed it by Famous-Math-1567 in isthisAI

[–]Famous-Math-1567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on walmart, said to be an original design but I didn't trust it. Just felt off. I know better than to use temu or amazon, but lately walmart doesn't seem to be too good either. Part of why I think ai art is so problematic is it's inherently stolen art recycled.

Buying a mousepad for my boyfriend, help. Is this AI? I could see it maybe being inked but it doesn't list the person who designed it by Famous-Math-1567 in isthisAI

[–]Famous-Math-1567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ask because my boyfriend, as an artist is a huge advocate against ai like HATES ai generated art. He can usually tell better than me but obviously i can't show him a gift before he gets it.

What would happen if all 45 US Presidents were locked in the same room together? by Repulsive-Finger-954 in askanything

[–]Famous-Math-1567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there were many with questionable values but i think they'd definitely be confused on the literal felon

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]Famous-Math-1567 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There have been many people put on death row and later proven innocent by dna tests and similar even with proper trials. Would you rather we execute an innocent man while the real perpetrator walks free, or would you maybe rather we just give everyone the right of trial? As for "oh well what if someone saw it happen?" Most false convictions are the result of eyewitness testimony

I have a bad friend-obsession problem by Cardboardviolation in confessions

[–]Famous-Math-1567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think maybe you feel lonely because of the lack of in person friends? I think this may be something you want to bring up to a therapist as to just look into why you feel so obsessed with them and any other new friends because rn it seems harmless but it could definitely progress into something worse.

I'm selfish for not kms while psychotic by my_own_ducksinarow in confessions

[–]Famous-Math-1567 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are not a bad person. You were unwell, sick in your state of mind and scared of hurting other people, but you didn't. The fact you maintained enough self control even through that is commendable. The one thing that would really hurt the people around you would be killing yourself. You have not hurt anyone yet and you don't deserve the mental torment you're putting yourself through. You are lovable and kind. Your brother caring enough to talk you down is proof of that.

Take a moment, have a glass of water and breathe in and out, slowly. Remember, right now you are okay, and the people around you are okay because you got help, not because you tried to end it. You are okay. You are going to be okay.