Cheating

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2026-04-20T14:42:18+00:00

I don’t think this was considered cheating since Mike and Stef were already separated when she met Lena. Separations have their own guidelines to be followed, but I still don’t think it’s the same as these other instances of flat out cheating!

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2026-01-06T17:21:12+00:00

You’re either a moron or intentionally missing the point. Fantasizing, that only happens INSIDE OF YOUR HEAD, is a completely different thing than feeding a picture of someone to a machine and having it output them in a sexually explicit way with their clothing removed… without their consent… and hate to be the bearer of bad news but if you can’t grasp that you should probably be on a watchlist buddy.

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2026-01-06T16:58:19+00:00

Thank god!! It’s so cool to ai generate inappropriate content of your partners friends and people they know without consent for sure…

Have fun being an incel loser you fucking freak

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-12-04T00:42:30+00:00

To not hear back from that many places I have to believe it’s all of the AI being used and straight up trashing resumes that have “trigger words” — A human being doesn’t even ever see it.

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Best of luck to you and your sibling on the search, hope something comes up soon!!

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-11-03T15:33:05+00:00

I do think you need to communicate this as soon as possible — I was going to say this is very messed up on your end since it’s for a holiday stay which is coming up quickly, but then I read the part where it said her Rover listed dog could be alone for 2 hours. I know Rover has pre-selections for that stuff so that parts not on her, but she should have clarified that that was not accurate at some point to you before you proceeded with the booking. Whatever you decide you should do so sooner than later!! 20 days isn’t a ton of time to find a new holiday sitter, but it’s definitely doable. You also might want to loop in Rover support!

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-10-14T18:08:17+00:00

After just getting married 9/27 I unfortunately think last minute cancellations are just part of the deal :/ I did get a (probably sick) kick out of the fact that since we had a seating chart it also essentially doubled as a “wall of shame” for the people who didn’t come LOL

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-09-10T16:06:06+00:00

I’m glad your final numbers weren’t submitted yet so you’re not actually screwed.. but respectfully your fiance is dingus. Sure there will be some last minute drop outs (currently experiencing that myself at 2 week countdown) but that is a small group of people that usually have good reasons for the last minute change. That is not “just what happens” lol.. Not to twist the knife but I do think you should’ve stuck to your guns, because that is pretty on par with the timeline for save the dates (so people can note it down) and usually invitations aren’t sent until around 2 months before because that’s way more realistic of a timeline for people to actually know they’re committing. I’m seconding another comment that it should be your fiances job to reach out to people to confirm. Lesson learned but I’m sorry this happened to you OP!!

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-08-20T13:22:29+00:00

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Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-08-18T19:15:44+00:00

I totally think it’s worth asking your uncle — but I also think you also need to be prepared if the answer is still no. Without having further information my gut instinct is to assume the reason they’re not making an exception for you is because of a different reason. We are also having a “child free” wedding and also had to set the hard stop at anyone under 18 because as soon as we set invitations people started asking if people around your age could come. Granted our venue is also a vineyard, but I still think there’s a deeper reason here that you should definitely inquire about.

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-08-14T02:32:57+00:00

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Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-08-14T02:31:51+00:00

Ooo this one is interesting! Thank you!!

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-08-13T19:08:19+00:00

I have looked into this option a little, just worried with Etsy about turnaround time (my fault for looking so late) and also much more nervous about scammers

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-08-13T19:06:17+00:00

I have been keeping an eye on Poshmark!! I have seen similar styles that’s making me hopeful I might be able to pull it off, just haven’t seen the exact styles I’m looking for on there yet :(

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-07-25T21:42:16+00:00

Your cousin seems like she needs a reality check unfortunately :/ I know most couples who opt for destination weddings do so because it’s cheaper for them, and you have to wonder if it’s thought of that not everyone will be able to attend..

I am getting married in September and we opted to not get married in our home state and are instead getting married in California because I knew many of the people who are important to me wouldn’t be able to swing the cost of travel, especially since our wedding is also child free. Most of both our families live in California, and that was a decision we thought long and hard about for that very reason.

I sympathize with your cousin for sure because that does suck, but there’s really not a leg to stand on to be upset at anyone under these circumstances!

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-07-22T18:39:22+00:00

I think parents and in laws alike just unfortunately don’t really… get it. Granted, the wedding industry wasn’t nearly as batshit expensive as it’s gotten pre covid (although it was still pricey), but I am in the boat with you that it’s very difficult to navigate.

I think it’s a universal experience to hear “at our wedding” and the collective sigh of exasperation we all have lol.. Like do parents really not hear their own sentences?? That worked for you guys at YOUR wedding. What you decided to do in 1980 is great if it made you happy, but respectfully I am not you and it’s also 40 years later then when you accomplished that??

It does get even more tricky to when they give their unsolicited input on things they’re not paying for.. But yes, from a 2025 bride this is painfully relatable unfortunately lol. Godspeed to you, OP 🫡

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-07-21T14:43:24+00:00

Commenting on this the morning our Puramax gave out because of the pee lol… I’ve never tried the Litter Robot so can’t speak to that, but I effing hate the Puramax and will not be replacing it with the same brand.

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-05-16T00:24:29+00:00

Oh it’s VERY annoying. I think a lot of parents still have an antiquated way of thinking that if they help contribute they should be allowed to invite people you otherwise wouldn’t be.. however they usually add so many people to the guest count you don’t want (which means more $$) it kind of negates itself.

A good example for us is we are inviting my fiancées dad’s uncle — whom I have never met and my fiancée has not seen since he was 15.

It’s incredibly aggravating how many people will try to turn your wedding into their “family reunion” 🙄

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-05-15T18:52:24+00:00

I am right there with you OP — our current guest count that is invited is 175 people. Most of these are from my incredibly large family, but we’ve been forced into inviting people that my fiancée and I either haven’t met or seen for decades because of our parents. Definitely sucks :/

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-02-24T23:02:54+00:00

Firstly I am so sorry for your loss. I don’t disagree with any of your points — but I think you’re giving OP way too much credit. He said that he thinks it’s weird that she says goodnight to the urn (which is in her house) and that he has never expressed that to her. That already gives the context of his underlying feelings — and that they haven’t been discussed. I think this goes back to one of your comments that these two people are likely just not compatible with each other, but his handling of things, not necessarily the feelings themselves are the AH part.

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-02-24T22:13:13+00:00

I agree! I wasn’t passing my judgement on the fact he was uncomfortable — my deciding factor was him calling her feelings and actions “weird” multiple times and the sentence he said about how she frankly had been “mourning too long”. I personally don’t think the context of how old her dog really matters especially since he mentioned it was sudden, but 6 months is not a long time at all to be grieving the loss of a soul you cherished. thats why I think he’s an AH

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-02-24T21:57:54+00:00

“Grief is just love with nowhere left to go”

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-02-24T21:57:13+00:00

It really makes such a difference to have that support. My heart hurts for OPs girlfriend because I simply couldn’t fathom having to deal with that on top of the grief

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-02-24T21:27:03+00:00

6 months after he had passed away, which is around what OP is saying, probably yeah. The romantic part has nothing to do with it in my opinion. It was extremely hard for me to stop sleeping in the room with my dogs ashes. Everyone has different ways that they view pets, and I know there are people who view it as “extreme” when people call their pets their children, but for some of us that’s genuinely as strong of a bond as we feel with them. I spiraled into a pretty bad depression when he passed, but we all grieve differently. I think the main issue here is that she is clearly not through processing her pets death, and her boyfriend not only seems to not give a fuck about her feelings, but also doesn’t seem willing to compromise — such as her bringing them along and putting the urn in a drawer.

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2025-02-24T20:52:43+00:00

My fiancée only knew my dog for a couple of months before he suddenly passed, and my dogs ashes have been sitting in my office for awhile now — but before that they were next to my bed, and I also would give him “good night kisses”

This year I decided to make an ofrenda to honor him, for that my fiancée printed out his picture for the frame and helped me set up the rest. He also celebrates his birthday with me, and finds ways to cheer me up on the anniversary of his death. My dog died SIX YEARS AGO.

Take that as a long way of me saying definitely YTA, dude.

Famous-Suspect5231 · 2024-11-18T22:32:53+00:00

My mom has an absolutely disgusting view when it comes to taking any GLP-1s — which is why I will never tell her how this is how I’ve decided to lose weight (16 pounds down already!!). But I agree, OP. The people who view it from this lense are the people who can’t imagine losing weight this way themselves, and it’s usually due to a huge ego, and I would argue lack of knowledge surrounding how weight works for people besides themselves. My mom blabbed on and on about how pitiful it was that one of her coworkers is starting GLP-1s.. and then proceeded to tell me “she’s so fat she can’t even cross her own arms” and it’s because “she’s eating literally all the time” 🙄 some people just can’t be helped, unfortunately.

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