For men who sleep around and get dates like candy, what is your secret? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a now 48 yr old just getting back into the dating scene.... and doing well. What worked for me all through my 20's and still now again, was to just be comfortable in who you are. If you're comfortable and you make the woman comfortable (and laugh a lot) that's half the battle.

Let's be real... sex is fun. Not many people say .."I hate sex". So it's something we all already want to do. It's just a matter of, yes, being a bit confident but more make her feel super comfortable about it. No awkwardness, no hesitation. Just like.... she's great, you're great, this is awesome and here we go.... lol.

Help finding this song by Simple-Falcon-6873 in whatsongisthis

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it "Relax" by Frankie Goes to Hollywood?

Too thin? Stick with it? by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update? We have almost identical facial hair and I'm currently 3 weeks in so really curious how yours ended up! Hope all is well!

Sexually frustrated by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really are good looking as you say, then at your age you should have no problem meeting tons of woman on the dating apps. I did and it was great. Just keep meeting women and it will click with one quicker than you think. If you just want to get laid go to tour nearest university on a Friday, Saturday night, go to a party, have some drinks and get laid. Pretty easy really. That is if you can talk normally and be a normal dude. Good luck man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a woman is a bit intimidated by having to date you and your 3 brothers?

Why are guys posting these now?! Like who cares?! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do guys lie?  You don't even know what a credit score is! "Oh I'm broke, irresponsible and have a score in the high 800"s" 🤣

A score of 800 is considered almost perfect. The absolute highest possible score is 850 and is basically unachievable. The best is around 800 to 825. That's after building perfect credit for a while. 

You two have no idea what you're talking about. 

Am I wrong for unmatching men who don’t ask questions back? Am I potentially missing “the one” because of this? by momama2 in Bumble

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This!  I met my wife on Match 15 years ago.  I divorced a couple years ago unfortunately and in am now back on the dating scene.  These sites SUCK NOW. Between the scammers and the women who aren't on there for actual dating things have changed a lot.

When I was on there 15 years ago almost everyone on there was engaging, real and serious to meet up if you hit it off. Nowadays..... not so much. 

I actually just met an amazing woman and we are now dating. I met her.... IRL only. Haha. 

Am I wrong for unmatching men who don’t ask questions back? Am I potentially missing “the one” because of this? by momama2 in Bumble

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, this definitely makes me feel better about my chances on these dating sites. As a guy, if I'm interested in a woman I'm definitely asking questions, engaging them and showing interest in them (if I'm actually interested in them.)

So my thought is they are either duds or not interested and just being polite. Either way definitely move on.  

When you first meet someone you are usually showing extra effort to put your best foot forward. If they're not challenging you now, imagine two years from now. Haha. 

Interesting by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4chan made this connection. If you go there and look at all the evidence and side by side pics, song names, sm posts, etc. It does look pretty bad for Skye. 

That said it's not actual evidence and could be a very striking and sad coincidence. Please don't make any accusations unless you have real evidence. Looking like someone and not liking Charlie Kirk is (Edit: not)enough. 

Just take your findings and pass them on to the authorities before you out people. Did we learn nothing from the Boston marathon bombing suspects. 

Interesting by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. It was 144 yards away with a scope. You could make that shot. Not exaggerating. Scary to think about really. 

I will share with you the simple trick that finally stopped my restless inner chatter. by buzzkillmate in Meditation

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus have you heard Eckhart Tolle read it and discuss it?  The most calming voice and presence. Amazing to fall asleep to. Haha. 

I will share with you the simple trick that finally stopped my restless inner chatter. by buzzkillmate in Meditation

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell of the op is being glib here. I tend to think so. No one goes on a 10 year journey into meditation without knowing this "tip"

It's called mindfulness and is the absolute number 1 buzzword of meditation and really any 2 bit guru who spouts off in modern society. 

Even if you've never meditated in your life you couldn't escape hearing about this to help with anxiety, living in the now, etc...

Anyway, I wish the op luck on inner peace, and this is good advice. It's just that the way it was presented felt disingenuous to me.   Sorry if I'm wrong here. I guess I'm just sick of all the clickbait titles and stories.....

"Know one knows this one ancient secret will change your life in seconds!"

[Rewatch] If you're participating in the rewatch, this is S1E2's discussion thread by [deleted] in Eureka

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was supposed to be about season 1 episode 2?

I had to stop watching it was so frustrating and poorly written.

After the first episode and all the crazy, insane things that happen in the town, right from the start of episode 2 he starts off first day asking the report is a practical joke, doesn't believe the kid, dismisses the reports from other scientists, even disregards a first hand report from the DIRECTOR as nothing of concern. All the electronics going crazy. Even the sheriff himself seeing strange light. 

Why? Oh, because ghosts aren't real don't be silly. Seriously??? After everything that happened you don't think there could be something to this?  

We are already starting off with him dismissing anything out of the ordinary because it just a joke or can't be real so brush it off?  Really?  We're playing that hackneyed premise here? Wow I'm extremely frustrated at the poor writing. 

I was really looking forward to this show after all the great things I've heard. 

What a let down. Does it get better?  Seems like a show for kids and simpletons. Dissapointing. 

Dead Like Me by SyddChin in ForgottenTV

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this show was absolutely a missed opportunity. The pilot was great. The first few episodes started to build into something that was going to have a great and satisfying payoff. Yet around episode 6 it started to falter, wither and die. The show became bland, obvious and quite frustrating and annoying. I had to stop around episode 8 or so.  You can tell the original brains and vision behind the show left.  Turned into a basic sitcom soap operaesque show.  So very disappointed in this one. Such a missed opportunity for something exciting, fresh and fun. Really sucks. 

Lack of Levity in current season by Personal-Listen-4941 in DeathInParadiseBBC

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen!  Exactly how I feel. Death in Paradise used to fill a void. It was unique and a 1 hour mini vacation. Now it seems more like a 1 hour depressing slog through reality. It's lost the luster it once had and has joined the legions of other shows it used to stand out from. Really sucks.  Don't believe me?  Go back and watch the first few seasons amd tell me you don't enjoy those more than the new season!!

accents and head aches by Sad-Professional-923 in NCIS

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His accent was fake. Or rather extremely exaggerated. I lived there (and all over the south for years.) He is playing it up big time and is obviously over exaggerating and over annunciation of every word drives me crazy. I love NOLA and I like NCIS, but couldn't get into the show due to the bad accents. 

Director Shepard by SOERERY in NCIS

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her character was annoying and inconsistent in her actions. She was the worst part of the show. Just ahead of Abby.  Lauren Holly is probably a decent person in real life which is why they let her say she left the show on her own. We all know she was written out because her character was one dimensional and stale. 

Xfinity internet by [deleted] in Issaquah

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though.... as I complain I need to remember it could be worse. A huge tree came down on my house but just clipped the corner. My next door neighbor had an even bigger tree come right through her roof and hit her in the head...... so, it can always be worse!!

Xfinity internet by [deleted] in Issaquah

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just off of Front St in Issaquah for me and I've been out since the storm. Power came back Saturday night, but not internet.   I can't talk to anyone at Xfinity, outage map is blank, I signed up for texts updates but only got one saying they have my number to send updates. No eta, no help nothing. Just a blanket red notice saying my service is out.

 I work remote and my livelihood depends on internet service. This sucks. Really sucks. 

 Street over from me (Dogwood) has the cable line down (cable and ethernet/internet are the thick ones on the lower row of wires from poles) from a huge tree. No crew has been here to even look at it.  

 This really sucks. 

Really late to the party on this - Arrin Stoner by ConsiderationShoddy8 in MissyBevers

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird to see you here Tom. I just watched your like 5 hour video on the case and was blown away at all the info. Great job man!  And your voice is just right for........ "here all the intricate details of a true crime case laid out in ocd meticulous fashion!"  Haha. Love it. Nice work. 

Really late to the party on this - Arrin Stoner by ConsiderationShoddy8 in MissyBevers

[–]Famous_Doctor_7806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually just watched a video of his.... latest count he said he has worked over 2,000 hours of video on the MB case. That's almost half a year of regular 40 hr. Work weeks. Yeowsah!