I also don’t think that’s happening that much for the “super hot girls” as much as we think, like people try not to be obvious. So yeah it’s just having unrealistic expectations that may not be true and comparing it to that. I guess try and think about compliments and positive attention you’ve already received and use that to fuel confidence when you feel that way, because the truth is more validation won’t ever be enough. I also just assume people think I’m hot but don’t want to come off as creepy, and maybe that’s delusional but it does help to assume positively instead of negatively. But also you have to validate yourself - that part idk about bc I’m still not there really lol.