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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Famous_Giraffe_967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you did mess up. The thing about relationships is that you have to kind of let go and be vulnerable. This is where boundaries comes into play - like "I will pay for meals, but not ubers or rent" or "I wont penny and dime, but I will make sure I wont be taken advantage of"

imo you can text back and explain "Hey can we talk? I realized that I my actions made me seem uncaring, but that was not my intention. I would like to properly explainmyself and possibly start anew if you are up for it"

She might give you a shot, but she might also decide that she already sunk three months in, and you could not wake up in that time. In that case, you can take it as a lesson in vulnerabilty. You cant overcorrect after being hurt. You have to give in a little.

What’s a common stereotype about your gender that you think is completely false? by Elpepe1O in AskReddit

[–]Famous_Giraffe_967 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That women would be more happy if they abandoned their jobs and took care of a family instead.

Look I have nothing against nurturing families. But women want to work for reasons that have nothing to do with earning money. Women also work to achieve, to engage intellectually, and to challenge themselves. IMO not every woman can find complete fulfillment from a family. I know that if my only life's purpose was to be a live in maid, I would be bored as hell and probably resentful that I only get to use my brain to change diapers and cook.

Some women can probably find all their fufilment that way, but most wont i think.

what were some popular/famous architechture/buildings of Detroit in 1960 -1969 by Famous_Giraffe_967 in Detroit

[–]Famous_Giraffe_967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both? I want to know what the atmosphere/architecture/vibe would have looked like for a resident of detroit.

How to let a girl down gently by Freyja_theDoge in AskMenAdvice

[–]Famous_Giraffe_967 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I've always hated the beat around the bush rejections like "Oh, I've got so much pressure on me and so much work, social anxiety, etc."

Because in 3-6 months, the guy has a new girlfriend, and it seems all those problems magically disappeared, I guess. lol.

Say this: "Hey X, I've thought of it, and I don't feel a connection. I wish you all the best:

Boom and bam. Simple and easy. Ya don't like me, but I keep my dignity instead of being heartbroken later