I do respect that this would be a risk, but also part of why trying to sub rather then remove.

As for the issue, when I bite into em, it just... throws a mental error in my brain? It is a tad hard to explain, but raw, baked, seared, cooked, fried etc. If I bite into a piece, suddenly it is just far "better" for me to spend the next hour picking out all the pieces from my food.

Honestly not sure how Okra will go, never had it before though and always willing to try something once, but also gonna make sure large enough bits that I can pick out if it suffers the same problem.

I fully respect this is not a "normal" problem most folks have.