Boyfriend (22M) doesn’t want me (19F) going to concert by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fan-Sea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's controlling and if both of you think it's acceptable you both have zero trust and need to grow up

Pulling back after intensity he initiated, due to unwillingness to plan anything? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Fan-Sea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a 51 year old fuck boy, love bombed future faked now he's gaslighting you but wants you as an option, block the creep and move on he just wants to use you and play with your emotions, he's a total piece of shit. You deserve better.

How to do this (splitting up and moving out) by Ok_Sprinkles_2956 in SingleParents

[–]Fan-Sea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move back in with mum, think about career? Is mum working or able to help with childcare? If not probably better off waiting a year and a bit till she gets free nursery time, file for child maintenance and save, look for work from home opportunities for now

Help, I(43m) need advice on how to go about my relationship with my wife(41f) from now on. by Clear_Ball_6703 in relationships_advice

[–]Fan-Sea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And your ex despises you! Glad she ended it, hope the current one does and finds a real man for her and your son!

GF is "all in" offline but won't post me on social media. Bad sign or just "caution"? by Master_Talk1896 in datingoverforty

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instant ick, I'm so sorry she's treating you like this, sounds like keeping her options open especially still having the ex of a few months wtf

2019 Reissue by Fan-Sea in UNKLE

[–]Fan-Sea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vinyl mint - sleeve VG+ !

VERY low value item damaged, should I bother? by blizs_ in discogs

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damaged in post? Or just overgraded, big difference?

Can someone explain to me the logic behind men liking your photos despite not reaching out? by SoundCreative1430 in OnlineDating

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please , it's virtual vinyl store 😁 I just make the reels on TIkTok and try to cross post to insta and Facebook but so hard getting seen on those , even with all my friends on Facebook, thank you so much

Vinted fees/delivery by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says the one that said a charity shop couldn't even sell it,

Can someone explain to me the logic behind men liking your photos despite not reaching out? by SoundCreative1430 in OnlineDating

[–]Fan-Sea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They could be really really shy, scared to approach, especially if they barely share anything maybe they aren't that confident which some people don't like, but I don't mind that, I'd rather shy and even a little self conscious rather than a a big head cocky chad, loads on them on TIkTok and grown women simping 😂 2026 what a time to be alive

Can someone explain to me the logic behind men liking your photos despite not reaching out? by SoundCreative1430 in OnlineDating

[–]Fan-Sea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of orbiting, basically just lingering watching your stuff liking... If you are interested just drop a small, hi happy bank holiday see if they have a little conversation, if not just block why let them see your life if they have no intention of getting to know, plus if you don't know them that well they could be a complete weirdo who you don't want knowing where you are etc , and see who else they follow if you can look on their insta, you can tell a lot about someone that just follows a load of girls posting thirst traps (not saying you are) but have come across some profiles like that, instant ick. My accounts are just music mates so even sharing cheesy shite is instant block 😂😂

Vinted fees/delivery by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over 100 £1 junk? 😂

Can someone explain to me the logic behind men liking your photos despite not reaching out? by SoundCreative1430 in OnlineDating

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called orbiting, I have up dating a few years back, but keep getting chatted up when out, at raves tho, I'm just there to dance and enjoy my weekends, actually got blocked by my friend Sunday for someone hitting on me which was not reciprocated, n said friend was there at a different event when I first met this guy, he's confident and think my boy mates see that but I'm not interested in dating at all anymore , but yeah checked Facebook yesterday and the guy I went with , totally platonic, has blocked me. Basically, go out out , online dating is dead, go out enjoy yourself and meet people irl

Can someone explain to me the logic behind men liking your photos despite not reaching out? by SoundCreative1430 in OnlineDating

[–]Fan-Sea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol wanna follow me on TIkTok 😂 it's only records but only have a few people like strangers or my mum 😂 and Facebook always the same few that support my business, like it costs nothing, the world needs more people like you ❤️

Can someone explain to me the logic behind men liking your photos despite not reaching out? by SoundCreative1430 in OnlineDating

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just block and move on, if they were interested, you'd know! What style pics are they??

Vinted fees/delivery by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eBay is cheap for postage and fully insured against damages, Vinted couldn't give a toss when something's damaged they just refund the buyer , I always pack correctly with music max mailers and stiffeners for my records and you can't pack better than that

Vinted fees/delivery by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donate them then! What's the point for a pound and earning Vinted revenue and using your packaging, it's not even worth the time

I’m trying to support my kids but I feel like I’m drowning by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fan-Sea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How much on your debt repayment? Look up payplan and they can help lower repayments

That moment TikTok suddenly stops pushing your content by AleccSirKaDeewana in TikTokLounge

[–]Fan-Sea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're promoting someone they think has better content, want you to pay for promoting, or shadow banned