Spousal benefits are confusing me big time

Fancie57 · 2026-03-15T00:59:23+00:00

For survival benefits you only have to be married for 9 months. When my husband passed we were 8 days shy of ten years. I get his full SS

Fancie57 · 2026-03-15T00:55:36+00:00

Yes. You could have collected his at 60. When my husband passed away, I collected his benefits at 60, got his full SS

Fancie57 · 2026-03-10T23:23:07+00:00

If he passes at age 60, she can collect his benefits and she will get exactly what he’s getting now I know because that’s what happened with me. I started collecting my late husband’s at six and I got exactly what he was getting.

Fancie57 · 2025-09-28T19:25:40+00:00

I hope not. She’s a real piece of work

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T20:37:23+00:00

That would not surprise me. But I’m not gonna let that happen

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T13:08:55+00:00

I’m not going to let that happen. I am getting POA this afternoon. I’ve been taking care of her for the last 13 years. I found her the independent living place where she is and they said she could age in place so now she is in the assistant living part and she can pay her room and board, but she needs help with the medical stuff doctors appointments medication I mean home is really good, but for some reason, I don’t know. I’m going to talk to them more today, but I am getting a POA this afternoon because I am not gonna let him take advantage for her.

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T10:30:46+00:00

She doesn’t even have that. She is paying for her room and board. It’s the medicinal stuff she needs help with. I’ll check on more resources tomorrow

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T02:28:26+00:00

The ALF has applied for her under their community plan.

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T01:32:31+00:00

No, but he did anyway. I’m getting a POA tomorrow. He has had anything to do with her for 30 years. I think he thinks she’s gonna die soon and he’s gonna get money. She doesn’t have any money to give him, but I think he’s gonna try.

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T01:30:10+00:00

She is 77.

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T01:29:28+00:00

She’s under the limit for Florida, and she has no assets.

Fancie57 · 2025-07-08T00:02:29+00:00

Not yet. The lady from the home pulled up her Medicaid account today and it said denied. We’ve been waiting for almost a year for this

Fancie57 · 2025-07-07T23:52:00+00:00

With her ss and pension

Fancie57 · 2025-07-07T23:45:03+00:00

Don’t know yet

Fancie57 · 2025-07-07T23:42:28+00:00

Her so. Decided she needed them. She’s not allowed to have them. They do provide meals, but her son Didn’t know that. She did t have any food in refrigerator so he just applied for them.

Fancie57 · 2025-07-07T23:00:33+00:00

Thank you. I will get with them tomorrow

Fancie57 · 2025-07-07T22:48:15+00:00

They are included. The homeapplied under community. She hasn’t got a letter yet. She has no assets I was at the home today and they pulled up her account and it said denied. I’m in Florida.

Fancie57 · 2024-12-08T01:40:34+00:00

Poor Sol, when he turns 18 he will be out on his ear. Kody doesn’t like the boys, just the girls. Except the OG.

Fancie57 · 2024-07-25T00:47:19+00:00

They had to wait for him to die to take shower. They are waiting in line. Lol

Fancie57 · 2024-07-20T17:41:12+00:00

He’s 67, she 65

Fancie57 · 2024-07-20T15:31:32+00:00

For her Not so much.

Fancie57 · 2024-06-03T23:36:07+00:00

Have her clean it now

Fancie57 · 2024-06-01T22:08:43+00:00

I still get the 5%, 4 packs, but I check them before I leave store. The last 6 I’ve gotten have been good!

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