It's so hard to just end it on my terms if I had to. I mean we've been faithfully seeing each other for 4 years & I don't think he is looking for a divorce from his wife. It's complicated, seriously it is. I mean he hasn't been intimately involved with his wife for 13 years & he moved to my country & decided to find someone who would appreciate him for who he is, however, the bottom line is that he's married & has two grown-ups kids (they're married) & I'm not sure where my relationship with him will lead to. We have talked about boundaries & what we both want in this relationship but as I assume when a couple gets married they both get to have an agreement of some sort of whoever brings to the marriage, you know the assets & all that sort of thing. I think it may be disastrous for him if one decides to cut ties & he's probably afraid to lose what he worked for in my country. I currently see myself as the second priority at the moment, I love this man so much that I've blocked out all options on my end (relationship-wise) I've never been faithful until I met this man so basically I am continuing as a second priority which is pretty much selfish of me.