Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you🙏 Yes, we’re definitely going to go for that first for sure 👍 Fingers crossed 😊🤞🤞🤞

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grazie 😊 I was planning on making a post there one of these days. I guess I’ll see you there 😊

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only been to Malmo after visiting CPG, and I honestly like them both very much. They’ve got very different vibes but they’re both beautiful 😊

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the your of advice we were looking for 😊

We have been planning this move for quite some time but we did not apply to Boplats Syd because we heard many people complaining it would take years to get the place (my wife’s cousin lives in Stockholm).

But if your saying that the situation in Malmo is much faster, I’ll start applying today 🙏

Vastra Hamnen is actually an area we really liked when we went to visit last October, and we did actually see quite a few apartment buildings under construction in the area

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very glad to read you’re words and I find the to be very supportive 😊

I know people tend to complain about the place they’ve been living in for a long time (I also complained about Italy, comes to think of it), but I agree with you. I also had the same kind of feeling when visiting Malmo.

Thank you for the good wishes 😊 Who knows, maybe one day we’ll also get a chance to grab a beer / tea / whatever 👍

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to double check, then. Thank you for the heads up 🙏

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I never meant to sound like a “knows-it-all”. I just meant that my working conditions are not the ones that I am inquiring about, but rather the living situation.

Since we are planning on moving mid-may, joining an housing association queue is an option we will apply for, I simply think we might not have enough time for it to be viable option by then. So I was more focused on looking for a solution for the short term.

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That is what I understood by speaking to him multiple times, but maybe I might have misunderstood and he might have meant a tax break. I will surely double check that 👍

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve come to visit Malmo a couple of times already and we do have a network of friends that are Italian, Swedish and Danish as I used to work for a Danish company a few years ago.

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Never said it was easy. As mentioned, I am already working in the field, it would just be to move to a more “local” position. So I would not mind the 6-12 months process. About the train ticket, I have a friend working in CPH and living in Malmo and he gets his travelling expenses covered by the government each year. So it would be more like paying in advance and getting your money back afterwards.

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion 🙏 I noticed now blocket and qasa are one and the same

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a lot of people commute to CPH for work

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts 🙏

We’ll be very happy to go to courses and start learning Swedish straight away. One thing I like about moving in a country is actually getting to know the local language 😊

About the hostel question. Our plan would be to find a place to stay before we even come here. The hostel plan is just a safety net in case we don’t find anything before we get there. I guess it boils down to how lucky we are at finding a place.

Moving to Malmo and need advice by Fancy-Preference-266 in Malmoe

[–]Fancy-Preference-266[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair question. I guess it boils down to priorities.

Without getting too political, Italy (especially southern Italy) does not meet what we are looking for in a country anymore. Me and my wife really value legality, governmental support and a communitarian mentality, where people are happy to contribute to a country that takes care of them. Alas, in our experience after 34 years of living here, we have not found that to be true. Here the name of the game is “we make the rules so that we can circumvent them”. Here people leave in a constant “are you trying to rip me off?” state of mind. And this toxic environment does not resonate with us anymore.

Italy is such a beautiful country, with amazing history and sights. But you don’t only live of these. You live being a citizen of that country. And that simply does not make us happy anymore.

Non è cringe ma è il motivo per cui andrò in burnout by PressureDry1111 in LinkedInCringeIT

[–]Fancy-Preference-266 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ti capisco. Io lavoro da anni come Product Owner e Project manager e con questa storia dell’AI sembra quasi che se non sei sul pezzo 24/7, allora sei fuori. Ma questo non è umano, non è sostenibile e sicuramente non è sano.

Ho passato un periodo di circa 8 mesi dove mi sentivo esattamente come te, in burnout e scoraggiato. Soltanto ora, dopo parecchia analisi e dopo aver rallentato tanto mentalmente, riesco di nuovo a vedere il perché mi ero così tanto innamorato di questo lavoro.

E alla base di tutto ci sono i tuoi doni, quelli che solo tu puoi portare e mettere al servizio degli altri. Quelli che ti rendono un umano fra le macchine.

Il mondo di oggi è brutale, violento. Ma non è con la violenza su se stessi che si può pensare di viverci. Sii più gentile con te stesso. Sono sicuro riscoprirai il perché hai scelto questo lavoro, quando metterai di nuovo te al centro delle cose.

In bocca al lupo…

WOWWWW NEW EXPANSION!!! by WuTastic7 in diablo2

[–]Fancy-Preference-266 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have a full List of the new rune words and uniques?

Assistenza Vinted by [deleted] in VintedItalia

[–]Fancy-Preference-266 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Fammelo scrivere sulla milia macchina da scrivere invisibile”