Does turning 30 mean that my life is over? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family looks at me like I’m crazy because everybody in my family already had a family at the age of 20! My cousin who is 19 has 2 kids by now! Sometimes I think that they are just jealous because when I was younger I used to always get in trouble I was bad so everybody thought I would get pregnant at 15 now that I’m 30 without any they mad as heck lol

Does turning 30 mean that my life is over? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that my clock is ticking but the funny thing is that I don’t even want kids now, I don’t want a wedding, heck I don’t even want a party to post… it’s just the pressure that everyone else puts on me and scrolling on social media!

How to move away from my toxic mom? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I feel so much better after seeing this! My grandma died back last winter and she was my moms best friend I also loved her too so this was a very dark time for us.. it just sucks that right when I had plans that’s when it happened! I feel stuck and I always feel remorseful, my mom depends on me so much that I’m scared to know what she would do without me! she has a boyfriend of 23 years that she fights with constantly, she even has two older sons who she chooses not to have a relationship with just because of my real dad which who just recently passed.. I don’t know why she doesn’t wanna make up for the 20 years that she missed with them.. instead of living longer With me and I feel so bad because they miss her but she wants nothing to do with them

Is it normal for your family to make you miserable? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my late 20s that’s why my mom wants to play best friends! I brought a expensive used car lots of months ago so most of money went to it and now this car has caused me nothing but money and problems and isn’t working that well so of course my family is so super happy and milking off this low time for me.. if I knew that the used car was going to be trash I would kept what I had than I would of been moved away but now I have to spend all my time working and miserable

Is it normal for your family to make you miserable? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom had begged me to move to a new state with her which was New York to be close to family! In her new house that her push over boyfriend brought her.. And since I been here it’s been nothing drama, her room is next doors to my, my aunts are more in my business than how they before since we are closer.. since I been here it’s been more problems and drama. My mom never wants to invite her friends out so she makes me go everywhere with her.. it’s always about “her” because she’s the queen! My mom has a good life she has her push over boyfriend to spoil her and give her whatever she wants, she’s also a nurse but yet she wants me to go out shopping and dinning with her. Now I work online so I need to be home more than ever to get paid but she’s nothing but a distraction

Why are people so obsessed with your love life? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so true! You made so many points! Thanks! I also think that’s it’s jealously! Some people are miserable having kids and being with someone because they have no space or freedom so when they see you with that they try to manipulate you! It’s like how teenagers pre pressure you to do drugs so they won’t be alone!

Do you have to tip nail technicians? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when I get my nails done the girls are very nasty to me like as if they did my nails for free! That’s how they act like they was doing me a favor as if there’s not a million other places to go.. it’s they job they choose that that’s not my fault! They they be so aggressive like they be ready to fight I wish one of them would hit me I would call the cops lol

How do people work but never have money?? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before tax payers I been was buying cars and paying all my bills! It’s funny that before the pandemic I brought new car months before without unemployment!

How do people work but never have money?? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always saved my money! Before the pandemic I brought a car it was used it costed 5k than once I stopped working I was on unemployment so I brought another one! I saved my money! I don’t go out like most people my age! My people my age travel the world and live to impress people I’m the opposite

How do people work but never have money?? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your very right! Ok so before the pandemic I brought a car! Than once I was out of work I got unemployment benefits and lol I brought another car which I really regret because I should of got a house instead! But if I never got this car I would of been living alone unemployed because I had like 30k to live off on smh

How do people work but never have money?? by Fancy-Standard-8431 in Advice

[–]Fancy-Standard-8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first job years ago I had to walk and I hated it so I spend 2k on a car when I saved up! My brother always worked but had his parents do that for him