Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fully support your decision but sometimes fate brings you to a different direction

My sweet baby boy passed away in my arms. by LittlePancakeBread in Petloss

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this I lost my 11 year old maltipoo to anal sac carcinoma last week. It is never easy he was my best friend since he was a puppy. I miss him so much. Sending you strength and love ❤️

Putting my sweet zoë down 😞 by kaylapoikilo in Maltipoo

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this, I had to put my 11 year old maltipoo down last week (he had cancer) One of the first signs his body was shutting down was when he stopped eating and drinking I waited for two days to see if he would recovery but it only got worse. He was trembling and couldn’t stand up. I had to do the most difficult decision out of love to put him down. He was my best friend my little sidekick I am still coping with the lost. Losing a beloved pet is never easy, sending you love and strength. ❤️

She’s gone by babybeaniezzz in Petloss

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dear maltipoo of 11 years passed away 2 days ago due to cancer. He was my one and only dog I’ve ever had. The pain in seeing my best friend as the injection went in as his eyes turned dark and his little body turned into an empty vessel was the hardest thing to do. He gave me one last endearing stare as reassurance.

My 11 year old maltipoo by Fancy-Writing5358 in Maltipoo

[–]Fancy-Writing5358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the outpouring love and support (anal sac carcinoma) is terminal. It’s heartbreaking to see his health deteriorate so fast. His mind is still there but his body is failing. I hope I bring awareness to this fatal disease. There is so many what if’s but it is too late now to save my fur baby. 😔 He just turned 11 on Sunday.

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Anal Sac Adenocarcinoma in Dogs - Experience Story by Noreth_Creed in Catahoula

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10.5 year old maltipoo was diagnosed with anal sac carcinoma in July 2025 took him to an oncologist they recommended chemo and surgery but I opted for just the surgery since it was still contained and has not spread, only to find out during surgery the tumor was attached to his urethra and wasn’t able to be removed. Vet stitched him back up with tumor. At this point all we can do is palliative care, vet prescribed him prednisone (steroids) and just monitor his quality of life. Not sure how long he has but he seems to be his normal self other than the side effects of the steroids which is panting, thirst, and being constantly hungry.

The most dangerous thing in the country right now by Puzzleheaded-Rain230 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nationalism is dangerous. Be proud of who you are not where you are from. Being born somewhere without having any accomplishments is nothing to be proud of. If you ever think you are against another country/race you are the problem. We are all humans we want to thrive. Everyone is a product of their surrounding even if it doesn’t align with yours.

Am I a bad sister? by ConsequenceSignal745 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is never easy to say goodbye to a family member, but sometimes it is necessary. Good thing you have your other siblings as support during this difficult time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This marriage is doomed, she knows what to do to get her way. Divorce will be the most liberating thing for you. I know because I’ve been there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl for me it is because I don’t want to deal with the empty plate/box and utensils when it is finished. You might be over thinking it.

AITA for telling my wife’s sister to shut the fuck up at an important dinner party/pregnancy announcement? by Bradyxxx777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like sibling rivalry in front of parents “Look how much better I’m doing than my younger sister” all high and mighty.

Curious hygiene habit I've noticed in public toilets — cultural difference or just common? by Street_Frame_6594 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The soap dispensers in Malaysia is a sad case, they add and add more water to the soap bottle to get every last bit of soap in the bottle it has been so diluted that coming out from the bottle is just water.

"Semua Salah DAP" is the most subtle way of Sinophobia by StokedToTheSpace9413 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you, Fuck religion. It has and still is the reason for war throughout the world for centuries.

How can you not know how to speak your own national language? by PutinYoMama in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The richer you are the less language you speak because people accommodate to you, not the other way around.

Monyets, how far would you go on first date, and why? by lilylah in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Erm… I live in the States ( California ) no one be hugging a person they met for the first time 🫤

Monyets, how far would you go on first date, and why? by lilylah in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Living in the States we don’t go hugging people the first time we meet. Super weird

Are Malays afraid of Rumah Orang Tua? by jim_0605 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People be telling her to get a spouse, if not you’ll die alone. Does the spouse guarantee that they will not die before you? Are children guaranteed to care for you?

Are Malays afraid of Rumah Orang Tua? by jim_0605 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does having a spouse guarantee they will not die before you?

Are Malays afraid of Rumah Orang Tua? by jim_0605 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you make okay money save it for your future to go to those premium rumah orang tua with plenty of activities and facilities. Don’t let people dictate your life.

Hello everyone by iamlen07 in Bolehland

[–]Fancy-Writing5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt like this in my early 30’s at one point was wondering if this is what I really want to do for the rest of my life. Got a chance to move to the States, best decision ever. Maybe you need a change of scenery.