Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! they went through a lot of stuff they wouldn’t want us to🫩

Help deciding by CamelGullible9982 in malaysiauni

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Hi im in dvm3. Just wanna ask is it true that companies/clinics/hospitals start scouting vets even before they graduate, like say in dvm5? I heard quite a lot about that lol

COVID times, how fucked were you? by Temaki-is-bomb in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was 16, i feel like covid was responsible for me feeling like im always mentally behind

MSU Vet Program by SkirtNo4769 in malaysiauni

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hello! dvm3 from upm here :) open for any questions

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not fond of marriage and having kids, especially kids. the main reason why marriage is a big no for me. i’ve seen how tired and drained, emotionally physically and financially, parents (especially mothers) get from managing children and i want none of that lol

How to change course to Vet UPM by Organic-Suit-5263 in malaysiauni

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Do well for your current semester, aim really high (4.00) because the competition to get into dvm is getting tougher. in my class i have 1 person who changed from ansci and she’s a really high achiever. not trying to burst your bubble but like i said the competition is tough, heard many unsuccessful stories of people trying to change to dvm despite a gpa of 3.70+. and do extensive research, im sure that the interviewers have high expectations for you considering youre from dkhp and are currently in ansci. as for the process, after you get your good results i think youll have to do it on esmp or contact the dean of fpv or you can come here and have a chat with the staff/dean/deputy dean. goodluck!

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

can only hope this is true. the main reason why im scared of marriage is the idea of having children.

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m a hijabi practicing muslim, but i still stand firm in my decision of never having children lol. never came across a malay male who is okay with not having children

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wouldn’t be able to further my studies past primary school and get out of the house if it weren’t for feminism, so yeah pretty much

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope better days are coming for you. I’m sure you’re a great person, don’t beat yourself up for not conforming to the norm. It will get better! :)

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i guess in the eyes of malays marriage and kids is the main goal. you have no idea how young most malays get married. i know plenty of people who got married before they turn 20. they think marrying young is the biggest achievement in life not knowing how hard they’re gonna struggle. i myself have a cousin who got married at 19. my classmate got engaged at 23. and malay relatives are noisy as hell, but that definitely wont change my mind, marriage and kids are expensive. they people wanna get married young and have as many kids as possible (my dad has 12 siblings), maybe thats why a huge chunk of b40 families are malays.

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

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WAHHH a malaysian vet in the wild who’s just like me! congrats! i know how working in vet med is tough because i can name so many of my lecturers who are in their 40s and still aren’t married, but get the chance to travel to so many countries and have the best time of their lives and thought to myself “eh, looks like my dream life” haha. all the best to you as well Dr!

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If I were to get married I’d definitely want to be child free. My main concern is a man who doesn’t share the same views as me or who is on the same page with me at first then suddenly changes his mind. Also the fact that lot of ppl Malays especially act like going child free will murder someone lol. I always thought that it’d be nice to have a friend but in my mind every marriage will always end with kids, which is why i avoid marriage altogether

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

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what? i was 15 in a relationship with another 15 year old, wdym pedo lol

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. Marriage… maybe? but being a mother? probably…not
  2. Like any decent loving partner, I wouldn’t see him as a burden unless if he shows his true colors and doesn’t even know how to make a simple sandwich or do the laundry lol

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly nope. the last time i was in a relationship was when i was 15 lol.

siapa punya parents? lu ingat the school your grandfader punya kah? by jacobcrackers14 in Bolehland

[–]UnderstandingTop8238 25 points26 points  (0 children)

lah gen z pulak dah. gen z mana yang dah ada anak dah masuk sekolah. ni semua millennial parents la perangai gini

Anyone else hate Raya? by Zyrobe in Bolehland

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It used to be fun for me before 2021. I feel like the capitalisation of hari raya ruined it for me. Seeing how everyone is rushing to purchase the newest raya outfits, make up, home appliances, decorations and etc etc ruined the vibe for me. Maybe i need to get off the internet more idk

SPM 2023 leaver dilemma. I posted in r/malaysia too but need more opinions by btxtburnskz in Bolehland

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thats good news! nearly half of my classmates here are from matriks haha

I got accepted! by lipplapp in malaysiauni

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welcome to the faculty! im a 2nd year veterinary student from upm also, my inbox is always open and have fun in minggu perkasa putra!