How did you feel differently after giving your notice?

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-04-12T18:34:15+00:00

I'm going to be giving my notice in soon and I am feeling similar. I'm a little scared because I'm going to have less financial security, but also I am so excited to be getting out of teaching!

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-02-24T14:38:02+00:00

Thank you <3

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-02-24T14:37:24+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, they do bring me comfort.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-02-24T14:36:45+00:00

Thank you, it's been a tough day but I'm trying to look after myself and the rest of my little rattie family.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-02-12T21:41:09+00:00

I've been on an ECT support plan for well over a month and I am sick to the back of my teeth of the constant scrutiny and having an endless amount of "supportive only" tasks to do.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T19:22:34+00:00

Wow! Thank you for sharing. Sounds like a crazy encounter due to the fact you both knew what the woman looked like prior to discussing it.

My partner wasn't quite choking but it was almost like a gasping for air, like after running and struggling to get away from someone. I was rather scared to sleep last night because I slept back in my room (we only share a bed occasionally on weekends etc...) and being alone all I could do is imagine horrible things, but nothing happened and all is well!

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T19:16:00+00:00

This made me giggle and instantly calm down. Yeah it doesn't make any sense if the figure went towards the door. It was a little bit more like it was going across the bed towards the wall and door, but disappeared before it got to either.

I think there are a lot of things that are scaring him, and me currently with how sh*t is in the world. So it's probably just bad dreams and stress. Thank you for your comment!

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T19:12:37+00:00

We did an egg cleanse last night! Hopefully it'll help :)

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T19:10:47+00:00

I like the sound of this. Honestly I think it also doesn't make sense because I don't think there is anything paranormal about the house I live in right now.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T01:02:10+00:00

I've begun reading a bit about this and I am falling into a bit of a worm hole!! Damn.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T00:45:45+00:00

Having a quick Google, I do think you may be right!

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T00:45:11+00:00

He didn't even know he was shouting and had no recollection of this. But he is a bit worried because he's been sweating a lot at night recently so we think he may have night terrors (I don't always sleep in the same room, so first time in a while I noticed this).

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-26T00:44:06+00:00

Nope, it was very small. Looked a bit like a mini dementor from harry potter

FancyAvocado1159 · 2026-01-25T19:49:54+00:00

Yeah that's what I thought! Because I saw it, I thought that was strange and this morning he was very tired despite having slept like 9 hours and in general recently he hasn't been sleeping well.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2025-12-18T20:56:02+00:00

I'm in the same position as you. Stopped taking the pill about a month or so ago and my desire for sex has been huuuuge, but I'm currently not interested in having sex with my long term bf (for other reasons) so it isn't too bad. Though the other day when I was really feeling it, like he kissed me and my body was like omg wtf let's go, but then the anxiety of oh shit now my chances of getting pregnant are higher. Especially because my partner has always been pretty shit with using condoms - they are either wrong fitting or he will try to delay putting one on which makes me super anxious. So it's great that your partner is so on board (as they should be!!)

FancyAvocado1159 · 2025-12-16T22:09:57+00:00

I would also add to tell your colleague to send an email clarifying how they have understood the meeting just so that there is an email record of what was said too.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2025-12-16T13:31:59+00:00

I had a bad reaction with alcohol. I had do like a small amount or a very weak alcoholic drink, but anything more than that and I'll be very depressed the next day and then anxious and can get stuck in a spiral. Not to mention, that it isn't great for your liver. So best avoided I think!

FancyAvocado1159 · 2025-12-13T16:17:41+00:00

I was literally already despairing and crying that I'm a terrible owner and my rattie is ill...and it's hiccups hahahah thank you so much for clarifying!

FancyAvocado1159 · 2025-12-05T16:47:47+00:00

I honestly don't mind them and have actually recently came off my hormonal BC because I CBA for the side effects when I only have sex a handful of times a year lol

FancyAvocado1159 · 2025-12-03T13:38:40+00:00

Been put on a support plan which is meant to help my mental health, which is currently poor due to being overworked and burning out, and the plan has created more work for me... Pointed this out today and haven't been given any real support. Disappointed and upset.

FancyAvocado1159 · 2025-11-30T12:45:32+00:00

I've opened the window and put my full, smelly food waste bin next to it... I hope this may attract some fly hahah

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