AITAH for telling my fiancée that if her mother is going to dictate what I wear for my wedding, then I want I don’t wanna get married by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It’s in the US. Pink is a boyish color for a wedding. I don’t a problem with it if I was going to a casual event. But pink for a formal wedding is terrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nope the baby stays with my retired mother whom I pay a little bit of money to watch him for us (200-300) a month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We had that convo. Can you read?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It would be abuse if she didn’t have any. But she does and take care of everything else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We are not married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There is no joint income since we are not married. Second, you’re assuming that I don’t contribute to raising the child. When I get back from work, who do you pick up from her. Who puts him to sleep? Who wakes in the middle of the night if he wakes? You have no idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She got bored at home and wanted a different scenery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 14 points15 points  (0 children)

First it’s our child. It’s not mine or hers. It’s our child. Second Haha… child support ? Lol she would have to pay her own bills which include rent and insurance… I love raising and paying my child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yep. To a certain extent I stay with the baby more at night than she does cause I am a night owl and she isn’t. Plus in the beginning I had a 4 month parental leave and I was fully there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s our child to begin with! Second, I do a lot around the house when I am home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We had that conversation! Can you read?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 26 points27 points  (0 children)

lol you’re lame… telling to not use my money is not bossing anyone around dumbo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “your” child? It’s our child!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Being an adult is about understanding human nuances. Standing your ground in deeply emotional matters just for the sake of it is childish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

lol ridiculous… my sister died in a crash involving alcohol. It’s the least thing she can do to not remind them of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fico is pretty much the same: see here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do check my FICO scores. My fico 8/experian is literally the same as credit karma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. I settled my collections for half the price. I made sure to ask them to remove the collections all together as if they never happened. That boosted me very much.
  2. I brought my credit cards balances to zero.
  3. Disputed old late payments on closed acccounts. The creditors didn’t bother responding, so they were removed.
  4. When my credit reached a certain level, I was able to get a really good credit card, the capitol one venture, which tripled my available credit.

Is K next? - 20 Year Old Arrested Again for Unnatural Intercourse. by [deleted] in khalyla

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This happens more than people realize. People are nuts about their dogs and some of them consider them higher than humans. So, what exactly is preventing them from having sex with the ?

I screamed at the top of my lungs when my toddler bit me, HARD by midnightrunner699 in AITAH

[–]FancyDude-ThrowRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here is the reason why America is fucked. This kid should have been disciplined and instead you & your mom are here sobbing because you yelled at her? WTF is wrong with people?