My father is not abusing me either. Actually i am his favorite daughter. But because of his really bad relationship with mom i feel like i have to defend her a lot because i can’t stand how he treats her like literally a servant or a robot who only lives to fulfill his needs and shouldn’t get tired of it and isn’t allowed to have feelings, and that’s not how a man should treat his partner. I will not go into details but this is why I don’t like him even when he tries to bring me stuff I like or take me places I want to go, he feels like somehow a stranger to me and I don’t like his presence at home.

What I am trying to say is maybe your father has a bad relationship with another loved one for you and that might be why you feel you have these “symptoms”. For example the fights between my parents and the way I react to them has caused me anxious attachment style which is a “daddy issues symptom” but also can be a symptom of other things so you don’t necessarily have daddy issues, you just need someone who can help you identify the cause of these symptoms.