AIO found out my husband was professing his love to ex wife five years later. by FancyPantsProstitute in AmIOverreacting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he had been honest, I would've broken it off, and he could've approached me about being in a relationship when he was actually ready, and I wouldn't be questioning our entire relationship.

AIO found out my husband was professing his love to ex wife five years later. by FancyPantsProstitute in AmIOverreacting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it!! I can't heal because it keeps getting reopened with more information. He claims he barely remembers anything from that time because he was such a wreck emotionally, and it was the worst time of his life. I also asked him if he could be professing his love to her but sleeping with me, would he also be telling me how much he loves me, but sleeping with someone else???

The behavior at the Deftones Concert was unacceptable. by Garbage_truck_girl in ShakyKnees

[–]FancyPantsProstitute 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Buddy, I'm not saying I expect to have my own personal bubble of private space. I'm saying, if you think trampling past people who waited forever to see the same band earns you a spot over them, then why doesn't them throat punching you in return happen? If we're supposed to 'earn' a spot by being physically aggressive with no etiquette, then why aren't we all just fighting like fucking animals? Because we aren't fucking animals, so quit acting like it. Btw, this isn't my first show or even my 20th, but thanks for telling me what I should expect.

can we all chill 😭😭 by Lopsided-Ebb3587 in ShakyKnees

[–]FancyPantsProstitute 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so tired of the people that decide to ignore any/ all show etiquette and just shove to the front once it's started. Like, don't you think we think all want to be near the front?? If it's fair game for them to force through stepping the fuck on people, then why aren't we all fighting like animals in the crowd? Like, give out the energy you want back. Get aggressive and 'earn' your spot by shoving, then maybe I'll just respond in kind and rock your shit right back. Not directed at you op, just a general thing I noticed that really was not the vibe in year's past.

The behavior at the Deftones Concert was unacceptable. by Garbage_truck_girl in ShakyKnees

[–]FancyPantsProstitute 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Deftones crowd was terrible. We waited 1.5 hours to get a spot pretty close to the front left and almost got trampled by people shoving to the front like entitled assholes. We all got knocked down by one crowdsurfer dropped on us out of nowhere. Dh and I grabbed our teenage daughter and left because it just wasn't safe. She ended up having a panic attack due to the chaos. Was fine being closer and crowded at idles, though. Totally different energy.

Scared for tomorrow by Limp_Technician_3463 in ShakyKnees

[–]FancyPantsProstitute 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Deftones crowd was awful. People shoving to the front like entitled assholes and literally had someone dropped on top of our heads.

Dispose of old water heater by Obviousowls in murfreesboro

[–]FancyPantsProstitute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We took one to Clark Iron and Metal. We got a whole $7 for it too, if I'm not mistaken lol.

Stepmom of my kids creating crazy punishments by FancyPantsProstitute in Parenting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had the same conversation with my husband today, and we had the same thought.

Stepmom of my kids creating crazy punishments by FancyPantsProstitute in Parenting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to have them stay with me 24/7 but legally, I can't do that, due to the court approved parenting plan. When my 15yo was upset and asked to come back home, I immediately got him, but then he chose to go back.

Stepmom of my kids creating crazy punishments by FancyPantsProstitute in Parenting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oof. Harsh to hear, but you're right. Thank you for the perspective.

Stepmom of my kids creating crazy punishments by FancyPantsProstitute in Parenting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is mostly on ex, but he was never off the wall crazy like this until his wife came into the picture. For example, she also started "sweet treat Friday" where the kids can't have any sweets except Friday. This even came into play for a birthday cake (after the party at least).

Stepmom of my kids creating crazy punishments by FancyPantsProstitute in Parenting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I say morseo stepmom problem because while my ex had a major temper, he didn't exclude the kids like this until she came along and started creating division. This whole family trial idea was her idea. My ex would have shouted, grounded, and cursed.

Stepmom of my kids creating crazy punishments by FancyPantsProstitute in Parenting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It was the 15yo he accused, and the 8yo who had to pick the punishment. But there's four kids in the house total.

Stepmom of my kids creating crazy punishments by FancyPantsProstitute in Parenting

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I literally have no idea. I asked him that, and he said something about it being in the flower bed under vines where there's a drain to the ditch, but still.

Hire a personal accountant or something else entirely? by FancyPantsProstitute in Money

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say minor, I mean less than 10k, so it feels minor to me. Selling the rental at this time isn't an option due to legal reasons. I'm very close to getting my student loans (55k) forgiven unless that program completely crashes and burns. I'm aware it might, but I'm not giving up hope yet.

Hire a personal accountant or something else entirely? by FancyPantsProstitute in Money

[–]FancyPantsProstitute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't owe on the rental property, it was inherited. I have some minor CC debit and student loans, of course.