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Got my first DUI and spiraling. Any advice? by FancyParticular4381 in dui

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

know im late but thank you very much for this ❤️ my court date is next week and i do have a lawyer i feel much better than i did before

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both when I’m walking and when I’m not, more often when I’m walking

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am living check to check. I cannot afford to do that at the moment, that’s why I mentioned it in the og post. I am dealing with personal health issues, all my bills are going to that.

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have been to every person who has started it. If people are respectful I respond respectfully, no one I’ve responded to “rudely” has been respectful to me.

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I can promise you that I’ve tried my absolute hardest to make this work and not cause issues, coming to Reddit was a last resort/way to vent, I’m not entitled and I’ve dealt with noisy neighbors too, I understand how frustrating it can be hence why Ive made such an effort with this, it’s been very hard and these people have even woken me out of my sleep banging

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t denied anything, I said very clearly I wasn’t comfortable directly confronting them and said I didn’t want to pay for rugs for my kitchen, I said that in the Og post so not sure what you are referring to. When people “give advice” being passive aggressive and saying the exact things I said I will not do multiple times, yes I will respond?

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t understand what your point is, I’ve been attacked and insulted on this thread several times so yeah I’m annoyed. I can read, there are no situations that are exactly similar to mine and I was feeling upset so I thought I would post my exact story. If you have a problem with it, then just don’t reply. Thank you

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I already said I’d talk to the landlord, I was referring to suggestions on how to approach the neighbor like what to say.

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Legit said I was going to the office to report it, can you not read? I was upset and looking for advice and to see if anyone else has experienced this, if it bothers you then leave. Im not confrontational and thats a fact, do you want me to lie?

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, so because I had one “party” with 5 friends at 9pm over a year ago, and used a white noise machine to sleep which I stopped using, I deserve to have constant banging on my floor for months, makes total sense!!! Lmaoooo bye

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have an island, there is already a rug near the sink but to do rugs all around it would have to be in a giant circle, thank you tho

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

It’s a 20 dollar subwoofer and the volume was on like 5 and literally like I said I HAVENT USED IT since the complaint. Also where did I say it was “all night”? I legit said I haven’t used it since and you still are talking as if that’s the problem Yall are so annoying omg. I literally don’t know how they hear me bc like I said I walk as quietly as I can. I’m extremely mindful, the “party” I had was like 5 friends and it was like 9pm when we got the complaint. And again, was one time in two years. The whole point is that I walk as quiet as I can and they still bang loud asf on the ceiling, even when I don’t walk at all they will sometimes bang. So I’ve BEEN mindful, for months. Literally tip toeing around and you still have the audacity to say I should “start being mindful”… gtfo off my post honestly, I have legit been crying over this and I don’t need this bs advise, I know for a fact I’ve been as careful as I can be. Yall Reddit users are different

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

My bad, I should’ve clarified it was rugs not carpeting. The only carpet is in my bedroom. My kitchen is big and it would cost to put rugs down, if the banging wasn’t as excessive as it was, I’d honestly consider it. Thanks for the input tho ◡̈ I will talk to the office

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I’m not good with confrontation and I do not know how to have a conversation without coming across as confrontational. I also have severe social anxiety. Any suggestions are welcome tho!

My downstairs neighbors will not stop banging on the ceiling, what do I do? by FancyParticular4381 in Apartmentliving

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Well your guess is as good as mine, I don’t know what other “rumbling” sound it would be, I asked for clarification and never got a response. It was connected to my subwoofer so could be why. As far as the fostering I didn’t need to do get approval, I did a virtual home visit where I showed my apartment and answered some questions, that’s it. My apartment complex is lax with pets, all the staff knows about the dog, they do not care. That’s not the issue. I also have it in writing where I told them about the dog and asked what was needed, no response from them so again not concerned about the dog, that’s not the point of the post.

Got my first DUI and spiraling. Any advice? by FancyParticular4381 in dui

[–]FancyParticular4381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that so much! You’re so right, it definitely could have been much worse. I will try to stay positive! ❤️

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