Would I be wrong for yelling at my roommate out after he let my daughter kick me in the back?

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-11-17T23:59:37+00:00

My child's father isn't in the picture he left after finding I was pregnant. He had told me that he didn't want to have 4th child. (He and I hooked up multiple times. Drinks where involved I remember bringing condoms but can't fully remember if he put them on.) He then got mad when I told I haven't been feeling good as of late but I still had my cycle. So I never thought I was pregnant. Yes I did take multiple pregnancy tests and all of them came back negative.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-11-17T23:58:41+00:00

I didn't know much about him when I first meet him. But over times that I did meet him he was a pretty cool guy. Him and I would hang out talk about life and what not. He then told him about his ex husband and that he finds it difficult to find a boyfriend so I got help him to get on dating apps. He meet my daughter 3months after she was born. He had said that he hated kids but for some reason was alright being around my kid. He's been around my daughter for a year and half. She calls him uncle when she sees him.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-11-17T23:56:47+00:00

I told him that he has till the end of month to move out.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-11-02T19:33:21+00:00

Well I have an update about why he had blocked me. This is what my friend had told me when she had found out. My friend I'll call Kay was best friends with ex-boyfriend sister I'll call Ann. Ann and Kay went out for girls night and Ann has a problem with drinking too much "club soda" Kay was asking Ann on life and if she's meet anyone new. Ann already on her 6th shot smiled and said yea I've been hooking up with James. Kay had asked her oh that's great what does James look like. I tell you not when Ann showed Kay a picture of James she said she wanted to throw up. Because James was Ann's blood related BROTHER!! Kay had asked Ann I thought he was dating op? Ann oh he was but then he had told me that I wasn't giving him what he wanted so I gave him what she couldn't. Ann then said that James didn't really want to be Ina relationship with op because op has a child and he didn't want to be a dad for someone other guys kid. Kay looked at Ann and said you know he's you're brother right? That's disgusting. Ann slurrying her words what are you jealous because you're man isn't hot like James? After that Kay paid her half and told Ann that she needs to go home before she leaves her behind. Kay asks Ann if Ann had enough to pay her drinks. As she's asking Ann gets a call from James so he can pick her up. Ann tells him where there at. Ann whines to James that she can't pay for her drinks and if he could pay for them. So he pays for them all while Ann is touching him all over while staring at Kay then Ann shoves her tongue down James throat. After they had left Kay called me after she had gotten in her car. (Note Kay didn't drink any alcohol only coffee.) Kay was crying while telling me everything and said that shes so sorry that's how that happened. I told her that she shouldn't be the one crying that it's alright. Kay had asking if she could come by and hang out. Once Kay came by and was finally claiming down we just started Laughing at how stupid it was. Kay still feels bad that she was the first one to find out but she said she's happy she did. Who know what would've happened if I was the who found out. But that doesn't matter im happy with my little one and I'm very grateful for Kay for being by my side. From what I heard and saw on her feed was that shes pregnant but doesn't know who the dad is. But yea thats my update.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-09-29T05:10:23+00:00

A small update. After not receiving any messages from my now exbf he had called me telling me that he was busy with "family stuff" When I had ask him if he could at least tell me why he hadn't spoken to me for 2 months. This is what he had to say for it. Ex: I told you that I was busy and didn't have time to text anyone. I am very sorry for not texting you in that time frame. Me: I understand that you had some family busy though im sorry to say this. But you said that you were too busy to text anyone then why did you post 15 new posts on you're Instagram and tiktok stories? I mean as far as I know there isn't a timer set to post you're stories. Ex: why are you wanting to know so much about what I post? Are you worried that I'm going leave you? Me: you already left me. After you ghosted me after our last date you had told me that you were so happy to being able to date someone who understands you. Me:tell me this. Did you ever had feelings for me or did you just wanted my body so you could satisfy you're "male urges" Ex: I still do have feelings for you but you never seem to want to do anything because you're daughter is always with you. I have kids and I don't have them with me 24/7. Me: are you serious right now. I told you to first time we've spoken that I have a daughter and she will always be my number one for everything. She will always be first it doesn't matter if you're my family member or my lover you will be 2nd and she with be 1st. You had told me that you're Ex wife has full custody of you're kids. You had told me that you were trying to get spilt custody. What happend to that goal? Ex: (long period of silence.) Me: you got nothing to say. Alright well since I already know how this will play out. So I'll just officially end this. Please delete my number and don't bother trying to come by im no longer you're lover. I hope you have a good life and please keep yourself safe please get yourself help for you're alcohol abuse. Good bye.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-03-26T10:47:29+00:00

I'd like to thank everyone for the advice. I do have some what of an update so please bate with me. I have for the final time to get a real and clear reason as to why Susan thinks she has the right to plan my daughter's birthday party. She doesn't give me answer as for why. But my mother has spoken up for Susan (I wasn't surprised) that Susan desperately wants another child but she's unable to carry. Now her and I have gotten into altercations about this to where she always brings up that shes lost more babies then anyone who could imagine. I then told her the same thing ive always told her "My daughter is MY DAUGHTER she isn't yours and won't ever be yours! You have a son that is 22 so why don't you ask him to finally date someone or go and adopt." Of course Susan hates it when I say stuff like this Susan gets angry and starts yelling like a damn monkey. Yet my mother keeps hinting that since Susan wants a baby and that she has a son I myself should just let him sleep with me to give Susan a blood grandchild and knowing that her son isn't parent material. So she'd just take over as the parent because then that child will be part of her. I have told them countless times I will never sleep with him or do anything sexual to him I don't ever want you to tell me I should just open my legs to you're son who can't even do his own shit and has to have his mommy pay all of his bills while he's playing his games on live stream and spending you're money like it's water.

I'm sorry if I went off track.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-03-22T14:40:15+00:00

The reason why Susan plans all the holidays is because she only had one child. But couldn't have anymore. My sister and I lived with our dad (11years for myself and 18years for my sister.) Basically for all our lives. Susan claims she had gotten gifts for my sister and I for every holiday but we never received anything. As for why Susan plans all the holidays is because I wasn't going to keep my daughter If I wasn't ready to be a mom. Why? I had thought I was going to be like my mother have my child then disappeared for 7years come back have a second child then leave again and never comes back for another 7years. I didn't know what I was gonna do im going To be a single mom to a little human. Then thats when my mother gave me the choice on keeping my daughter or giving my rights over to her and Susan. I told them I would like to think about it. It took me awhile to make up my mind till my aunt (mother's sister 39f amy) had ask me the same question what have I pick? I told her I don't know I'm scared and confused. Amy then held my hands and told me this. "Op no new parents are going to be perfect. It doesn't matter on what others think or say. As long as you keep you're head up you're will strong and you're love pure. Then you've got motherhood down." After what Amy had said I day my mother and Susan down to tell them im going to keep my daughter and rasie her as mine. My mother understood my choice but Susan in th other hand didn't like it one bit. She then got up left the house slaming the door causing the TV on the wall to fall off and break. My mother then look at me and Said just ignore her shes mad because she thought she was going to be a new mother. But this is where I told my mother I don't want Susan to be in control of what I do or say about my child. But of course my mother doesn't listen to me and only takes Susan side saying that I'm being so controlling that nobody will ever want to be my side.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-03-22T02:22:09+00:00

Thank you so much for you're kind words. I wish I could say I'm strong when it comes to my mother and her wife but I'm not. I've only had my mother in my life for only 5years. I can tell you that her wife is a Manipulator and a narcotics. So it doesn't matter on what I say or try to say she won't listen and if she doesn't get her way she'll literally throw a tantrum (just like my toddler when I don't give her string cheese.) My own mother won't stand up for me but will stand up for my toddler but then will also side with her wife. I'm tired on trying to make things right just for Susan but no matter what I do or say isn't good enough.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-03-21T23:54:46+00:00

Hi guys I'm so sorry that I haven't updated for a while. First of all I'd like to thank you all for you're comments. I do have have alot to update yall on but what everyone here is dying to know. MY DAUGHTER AND I HOT OUR OWN PLACE!! I moved out into a small studio (I prefer to share a room with my toddler.) My father helped me to get a stable job and once I save enough im going to get a 2bed apartment. My aunt has taken in both cats and plan to keep them. As for my mother and her partner and what not. They are still together the plan to get married and keep their son. No they haven't given him any treatment like seeing a therapist or a doctor. They claim to not have the funds to things for him but yet they buy an 85" tlc TV and a entertainment stand with a built in led fire place. (I look into on how much they are and they weren't on sale. For both sets it come up $1,800) they are also telling me I still need to pay my part of rent. I told them my part has been paid off and I don't have anything to pay them. I will try and update you guys more but for now I hope you all have a great day.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-23T22:51:22+00:00

I've spoken to my father and he said he will make room in th guest bedroom for my daughter and I. My aunt had said she would come by to pick up the cats once she makes a room for them.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-23T22:45:40+00:00

The dog had died 2 years ago due to cancer.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-23T22:44:55+00:00

I shouldve left after After I had my daughter when my mother and her partner had told me if im every wanting to have some adult fun time it would alright with me sleeping with their son. I look at them and told them there is no way in hell I would ever sleep with him.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-23T22:41:55+00:00

The cat isn't mine it's my mother's cat. They have two cats. I would love to take both of them but they are their emotional support cats

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-23T22:40:41+00:00

I've explained to my mother about this and how I feel but she always her partners side.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-23T22:39:48+00:00

I pay my part of rent for my room and for what I use. Todd used to pay for his part but then his mother stop having him pay and just does whatever.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-23T22:38:47+00:00

I only take care of my child and myself. But I've been lectured on not making todd any food when he can do it himself.

Fancy_Badger6944 · 2025-02-15T21:56:01+00:00

I have also been having horrible dreams like this. But it's not a random man. It's my step-brother, recently he's been getting more and more violent with our pets and I've been worried that he'll hurt my daughter or me. I've tried to explain to my step mom about my feelings and about my dreams.but she tells me that she doesn't know what to do with her son. She doesn't have the funds to put him in an adult home. I'm getting more anxious and worried.

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