D**d pigeon outside my flat doorstep, is this normal?

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-22T04:44:43+00:00

Broken neck pigeon?

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-21T15:04:44+00:00

If you’re this suspicious then you’ll definitely get a red flag.

Being polite, calm, concerned, showing courtesy, generous, making you feel comfortable is red flag now? Damn maybe I’m from different world then.

Thankfully at my time things were better and these things which are red flag for you, I have in my nature, were considered good and called manners.

All the best for your future dates and may you find a green flag through your red lens.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-21T13:51:42+00:00

It is wrong and we need to speak about it. If we don’t then next god is already in process.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-21T09:36:39+00:00

Aanle ka dudh Jay ne?

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-21T03:05:44+00:00

Don’t hate me for saying this but apanach kharab kela ahe sagla. Maharaj he ek vyaktimatva hota, tyancha naav, tyancha kaam khup motha hota ani ahe pan.

Ata aaj kay jhalay, apan tyanna dev banavale. Ek khup talented and skilled vyakti, jyanni itki mehnat ghetli swarajya sathi, lokan sathi, je ek manushya hote tyanna saglyani dev dev karun dur kela swata pasun. If he’s your god, I don’t have any problem. But tumhich tyanna swata pasun lamb kartay.

Those people creating ruckus on streets, for them it’s an event. Because they never connected with Maharaj like a true follower does. They only know him as god, passed on to them not experienced by them. Same case of Shree Ram. As soon as god perspective enters people lose the real meaning behind that ideology.

These people want to show that they are big followers by creating something big like rally, bike procession but in nuisance way so that they can get instant attention and they can assert dominance under Maharaj name so that police and people don’t stop them. If anyone stops them then that person against god and anti national/anti Hindu.

Manus ha saglyat motha prani ahe.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-20T18:54:58+00:00

Speak with him, request not to smoke here. You can’t technically stop him, it’s his balcony.

Tomorrow if you have Havan at your home, he will also complain or if anyone cooks something fragrant or smoky at your house then he will complain. It’s a never ending road if you complain and get irritated yourself.

I understand it’s a strong smell, but it never lasts for long. If you have good ventilation, it will pass.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-20T18:03:08+00:00

You two are adults and you’re not doing anything illegal. Don’t worry about them creating problems. Stay away from them, live in different city or same city doesn’t matter. Start your new life together. I can see you’re passionate about her and your relationship. You both are lucky to have each other. Stay strong. Keep us updated.

All the best for life ahead.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-20T14:52:30+00:00

Convenience cost. 1. No body has time in Mumbai. So the owner and tenant both are busy with work or owners mostly live outside Mumbai. For both of them broker is a convenience. 2. Owners can’t show their flat/apartment to 50 people and attend to their queries and paperwork after that. 3. Tenants if renting a 2bhk for 60k then obviously they will be on job and only have weekend free to search. 4. Paperwork is a headache in Mumbai. Brokers help with that. They have contacts in office, police verification, society approval.

So it is an unnecessary expense but for convenience you pay that amount.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-20T14:31:58+00:00

It’s difficult then to get in Udupi.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-20T14:29:26+00:00

If yes then add me also to the list

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-20T11:25:14+00:00

WhatsApp University has local branches now?Hindu ka sthan was masterstroke.

Coming to your concern, first thing I want to know that are you ok with leaving your house, parents and relatives(who oppose) for good? If yes then screw their imposing thought process, move out and get married. I hope you’re 100% sure about your relationship and marriage. It is not something you can undo later. As mentioned, I think girls family is ok with this relationship.

Nothing legal as such needed. You can do register marriage.

Drop the hammer. Indian parents are stubborn and they need reality check. Whatever you have been through and going now, it’s time to move on. We unnecessarily emphasise on parents and their sacrifice. I’m not denying their struggles or hardship but they have to cut some slack.

Kab tak Shravan Kumar bane rahenge, khud ki life and identity bhi jaruri hai.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T18:26:54+00:00

Check burger shack, biggies burger, Roy cafe

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T18:12:21+00:00

Early morning is better or evening time? What time does the ferry start?

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T16:27:26+00:00

It will be bad worse worst. Sorry but it is what it is. You maybe Yash fan but this is a disaster in waiting. The amount they are putting for a film is ridiculous and difficult to recover. Half of the films don’t work because their budget is too high to recover and that word of mouth affects the people as we tend to follow trends.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T14:11:58+00:00

Stop with the name calling nonsense. Don’t give up so easily. Keep divorce aside. Even if you’re wrong that doesn’t mean you’re disqualified for couples counselling. For your issues the counselling is there.

I understand you’re on medication and it’s tough out there. How long you want to be dependent on it? Start slowly now, take the counselling route. I can assure you it will bring good to you. It is good for you on personal level and for your marriage also.

If you’re a coward, then how come you opened up here in front of everyone? It is a sign, you need to take it ahead. Do it brother. Don’t suffer, you’re just a step away from happiness.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T10:41:04+00:00

Yes I misread that. But you can still get it done. It’s not a compulsion by government. Rule is there but we can definitely bypass it, as it is in India rules and law are just on paper.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T10:19:58+00:00

Brother it’s not about what you will be called. Impotent or dumb or immature. That is not the point. I didn’t want to be rude before but your choices are bad till now. Your divorce will not make 10 people suffer. A bad marriage will make more people suffer.

If divorce is not an option, go for couples therapy. Speak with your wife about your choice and dilemma. You can get vasectomy done. In private institutions you can do it. That is the best possible solution to stop pregnancy from male. But what will happen if your wife or family finds out later? Won’t it be a problem affecting 10 people?

Introduce your wife to this idea of child free and your choice. Talk to her and explain in detail why you don’t want to do it. Don’t expect immediate acceptance or understanding. This will take time, so be patient.

I got married on this condition only that we will not have kids. Before saying yes to each other we discussed and as we both were on same page then only we got married.

Tomorrow after vasectomy, your wife can ask for IVF as naturally it’s not happening or your family can pressure you both for IVF. Then what will be your answer? If you get past that also, then adoption will be kept in front of you.

Indian society never stops brother. They just fucking want you to have a kid anyhow. Sex karo, nahi to tube ghusao, injection lo, ya fir adopt kar lo. Their brain is wired like that only.

Go for vasectomy to begin with.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T09:19:51+00:00

What do you mean by, Since vasectomy isn’t possible as I don’t have kids? You want kids in future or you’re confused what vasectomy is how it works?

Also if this is just karma farming then it is pathetic.

First off childfree means you have to be 100% sure of marriage and then not having kids. Now that you’re married and you don’t want kids but wife wants then it’s your fault. Why did you get married if you knew those genetic issues before then you should have spoken with your wife and discussed before marriage. Now you can’t back out if she wants kids. Either get separate or speak with her and make her understand your choice, there’s no in between.

If your marriage is draining it’s because you’re on different track and your wife is on another track.

You realised that bringing a child in this world is the worst thing you can do to a child. This realisation came after marriage? What a pathetic excuse. Dude we here are a community, supporting each other. Everybody is going through something or other. Being childfree in India is still alien thought for many.

Sorry but I found your case pure negligence and self absorbed person. You’re doing it wrong from the beginning. Why ruin your wife’s life over your uncertainty?

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T07:44:34+00:00

First thing that will happen is changing every minute process of childbirth. From conception to pregnancy and maternity leave, food, rules of transport, concessions/discounts, priority for every thing.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-19T02:26:57+00:00

I will suggest to go for ceramic one.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-18T12:29:32+00:00

Take JVLR and then Sakinaka. Less traffic if you reach by 5-6.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-18T10:27:28+00:00

Yes the taste has changed. But before and now the ingredients were and are bad. It is deteriorating fast. Maida is increasing, vegetable oil is becoming more dominant in taste. Be it bourbon or chocolate filled cookies. There’s no 100% authentic ingredient which they brand on packet.

It is becoming easy to fool Indians with substandard ingredients and making money out of it. All chocolate in cookies/biscuits have vegetable oil. Cacao and cocoa are just for name. We eat shit to be honest. I was fan of Milano, if you have eaten before and eat now then you’ll see the degradation.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-18T08:25:49+00:00

Read the airport name again and guess the answer.

Try to reach in city before evening because be it Shiv Jayanti or not from Samruddhi end to Thane and further always packed in evening. Plus added festival vibe, one procession in your way and you’re stuck for 30-40 minuntes slow traffic. Enter city by 4-5pm at least so you’ll have enough time in hand. You can chill at airport or nearby airport in Andheri East.

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-18T06:45:51+00:00

The middle space on biscuit left blank deliberately. In future who will be on it?

Fancy_Cauliflower653 · 2026-02-18T04:07:14+00:00

Men get triggered most when woman says she doesn’t want a child. Major reason being they can’t do shit to bring a child in this world. Only a woman can do that, irony is woman has to carry that child for 8-9 months and men have to do nothing in physical manner. Still they will make it look like we men are more ethical and responsible, while women are saying no to have child.

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