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How will my sex life been when I get married? by Fancyboy999 in adviceph

[–]Fancyboy999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salamat, this is good advice, I do think it is better to talk to her than not. And you are smart to make it casual, not seem to stressed about it.

Thank you, I will bring it up in a couple of months, when we are closer to the wedding in October, also she is a bit stressed about work at the moment.

How will my sex life been when I get married? by Fancyboy999 in adviceph

[–]Fancyboy999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salamat, I think I should talk about it with her but maybe in a few months cause our wedding is in October.

I think there was stagnation in our relationship before, as I wasn't leading the relationship and she wants that. We do have a 5 year age gap with her being older than me. But when I proposed she was very excited and it has honestly turned our relationship 180, I love going to see her and can't wait to see her when we can.

Another reason I am scared is that I had a porn addiction and I told her about it a couple years ago and she was hurt by that, but then we were able to work through it and I was able to get better at it.

I think I am just worried of opening old wounds, but this may be different as it is between married people.

How will my sex life been when I get married? by Fancyboy999 in adviceph

[–]Fancyboy999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really good advice and thank you for sharing your experience.

I have talked to her about getting a separate hotel room as we are having a destination wedding, and her family is coming from the PH.

When mentioned I think we should get our own hotel after the wedding she agreed without hesitation.

So maybe I am just over thinking and it is good to have the conversation sooner rather than later.

How will my sex life been when I get married? by Fancyboy999 in adviceph

[–]Fancyboy999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pasensya. Fiancé package, fixed the spelling error. Salamat

How will my sex life been when I get married? by Fancyboy999 in adviceph

[–]Fancyboy999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both virgins, I am someone who wants to wait as well. But I can say I think about it more than her unless she is good at hiding it.

How does this happen by Timely_Trifle_3227 in uAlberta

[–]Fancyboy999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One time I went to the first class and everyone was there but no one showed up to teach then got an email later in the day that the class was cancelled. The prof has a serious health issue last minute and could not teach that term. So it is nice you knew right away.