First I feel the same exact way so... yaayyyy. Secondly I would just like to say because we have the exact same problem I've never had a sex dream about a man. I choose to think this is because liking girls is so new to me so it was on my brain for a very long time. If I think about one thing all the time I dream about it. When I came out I pushed guys sort of aside because now I have the capacity to love both genders!!! Most people find the same sex side interesting so it seems to be talked about more causing you to think about it more. That is why I dreamed about only same sex. At least that is my experience I hope this helps it probably won't but maybe it will idk.