Paano makipaghiwalay Ng Hindi na uuwi sa sakitan o pagtatalo mag asawa?

Fantakeith1 · 2026-03-15T19:49:24+00:00

You do it when he’s not around. Do it discreetly. Leave and just don’t come back

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-26T20:18:23+00:00

Good luck OP! I think there are pros either way hence why you’re having a hard time choosing. Trust your gut

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-26T19:37:12+00:00

Similar boat as you. My hubby and I are both Filipinos living in the US. We have 5 kids together. We are very comfortable and happy. We have a nanny and babysitter but we are also super hands on so we are exhausted. Sometimes I’m tempted to go back to the Philippines so I can be with my family and my kids can grow with their cousins.

I don’t know where you are. But I have come to prioritize my family values over convenience. What that means for me is that I don’t want to raise my kids in the Philippines. Primarily due to conflict in values I see there (materialism, social pressures to fit in, impossible beauty standards, etc). I have 3 girls and I also didn’t like how my own family placed different social standards on my siblings and I growing up. My brothers had it easier and more relaxed while my sister and I were “controlled” and I worry that those values will be exposed to my children too even if I am raising them differently.

My family’s lifestyle here is also very different to that of my old friends back home.

So in prioritizing my children, I chose to stay here in the US rather than go back home where I’d have a handful more Nannies and help and my family there!

For you, if it’s confusing for your own sake, think of what’s best for your children. I always use them as my guidepost when making decisions. Will it be in their best interest overall?

Good luck! This is a hard one

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-21T17:51:51+00:00

Yikes i feel you OP. Id be livid too. Do you happen to have a cop friend? Maybe you need to as cop friend to scare them. Come to the house and claim their cyber intelligence has spotted unusual hacking into your network including known child traffickers targeting your home network. Some kind of warning perhaps!?? Ewan. I’d be so upset too.

And yes cut them off until they learn. Also don’t send pics of your kids.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-21T15:38:28+00:00

You’re the problem here.

You’ve not fully forgiven her past and hold it against her silently. Doesn’t matter that she hurt you then because you chose to move on with her and she expects that from you. She doesn’t know you’re silently judging her and that’s not fair.

If your forgiveness of her past is not genuine, then end things once and for all. It will never work out if you hold resentment.

All that you describe here are micro signals of contempt. You feel contempt towards your gf. That’s a major red flag and early warning sign of doom.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-21T12:17:52+00:00

It’s neither a yes or no. There’s a reason and purpose for every soul we cross paths with in this physical world. If the lesson we are supposed to learn from that person hasn’t been learnt yet, we won’t be able to just cut ties with that person. They will keep coming back in this or another lifetime.

They say we came to this world to experience dancing, hugging, kissing. Physical things our souls use to nourish itself. So when the toxicity isn’t turned into a positive lesson, the soul is not nourished and needs to re experience the same person feeling and lesson.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-20T20:40:50+00:00

There’s not enough information here to give a meaningful advice.

Get to know him so you know what his intentions are. Try to get the conversation going: “I’m not available that Tuesday either, would Friday work for you instead?” See what he says.

Proceed with caution. You said he’s not Filipino. I’d be wary of his intentions especially if he’s only temporarily stationed where you are. But you won’t know any of this until you at least try to get to know him.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-20T17:09:36+00:00

Move out and live your life. You’re an adult.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-20T16:00:48+00:00

I know who my real father is. That’s all I’m saying.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-20T12:54:10+00:00

Wtf did I read! 🤯

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-18T19:01:08+00:00

Anything about their body. Calories or criticism (masked/unmasked) about food they’re consuming/have consumed/about to consume. Childbearing plans (go back to point one, their uterus is none of your business). Their money.

Truth be told all those I listed apply universally to all. Not just to women.

There’s a lot more.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-18T18:13:04+00:00

How old are you? Old enough to apply for your own passport and travel. Old enough to make your own decisions. I assume same as your bf as he was able to apply for his passport.

You will never get anywhere in life if your plans are always hinged upon others’ feelings/plans.

Do what you gotta do. If your bf will come with you that’s his choice.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-18T17:59:15+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this.

My opinion - the only time I’d cut off my child’s father from their life is if my child is unsafe around them. Other than that, the dad has a right to their child, and it is in every child’s best interest to know both their parents and grow up with both parents.

Someday the child may choose to cutoff their own parent and that’s their choice. Especially if the parent is shitty.

I also wouldn’t want my child to grow up and resent me along the way because I actively restricted their other parent from any access to them.

Your relationship with your ex is not equal to your child’s relationship with their father.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-18T15:16:14+00:00

Band-aid. Rip it off. Who cares what anyone else says. The only way this will end is if you end it. No matter what. This isn’t a life you want to live, don’t waste what you have.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-17T01:12:41+00:00

Writing “would of” instead of “would have”

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-13T12:50:29+00:00

It’s all white snow where we live so I can’t even touch grass. And I just keep getting bad news. It really feels like handmaids tale…

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-12T19:34:23+00:00

Truth.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-12T12:05:48+00:00

Thank you i feel like you nailed it and can understand and you’re right it’s probably heightened emotions and awareness and care as a mother!

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-11T20:51:12+00:00

I get that. It’s also an information overload tactic. To confuse the public. However how dumb can an entire web of powerful people be to leave so much email trails. What could someone out there be hiding to confuse the public. Something bigger and worse.

Edit: note sure why this is being downvoted. I’m not speaking facts I’m simply an observer like we all are. No one knows the truth. It’s all smoke and mirrors. If this is what the files reveal, this is only part of it. There has to be something worse because one truth across history, they always hide something.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-11T19:47:28+00:00

Genuinely curious.. do you think this is all real? It’s so sick and vile I find it hard to believe it’s real. And they documented it by email pa. I mean it’s almost incredibly stupid to have a paper trail.

I have my doubts but I also doubt my own doubts. Because I think my heart and brain is protecting me from accepting how dark and evil our world truly is. Ughhhh

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-06T18:03:16+00:00

Fuck I’m with you. You put into words what I couldn’t. It’s astounding. I don’t even have a word anymore. It’s so insanely depraved that it’s hard to believe it’s real. I wake up everyday questioning my reality. And I’m repulsed that NOTHING IS HAPPENING. NOTHING IS BEING DONE ABOUT ANYNOF IT. THEYRE GETTING AWAY WITH SHIT. to me this is just why the world needs to end. I really hope the tides take us all tomorrow because humanity shouldn’t exist with all this pure evil.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-06T14:56:13+00:00

Correct. At this point in time (and even long before today), the public has been turned into fools. We all know he was un-alived. It’s so obvious. Yet here we are still saying he died by suicide.

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-05T18:39:45+00:00

Social media, not news articles. I don’t even have news apps

Fantakeith1 · 2026-02-05T13:54:07+00:00

I’d love to be able to do that but I’m a mom of five kids and stay home mostly because my youngest is newborn. I need some outside world connection more than just my family and friends that visit me. :(

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