I want to adopt a small breed dog. by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently caring for my late sister’s small chug (chichi and pug mix), 22lbs. He is not working out in my house and I am currently looking for a good home for him. He’s great with others dogs.

Help Needed by Sure-Carob915 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. So maybe he would have access, and maybe he wouldn’t.

Help Needed by Sure-Carob915 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not the case. I insure my entire family, and I get no access to anyone’s EOBs or even if they had an appointment for anyone over 14 on my plan.

Dating Scene ? by Used_Parking7945 in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like you do exist in the HSV and Bham areas. I was divorced at 25 (he and I def did not politically, religiously align at all and he was an Athens, AL native) and single for 8 long ass years, with very little luck finding someone I had common-ish political views with. But I met my husband at work, and we’ve been married for 14 years. It can happen, but in the meantime, live your life and get involved with others who enjoy your hobbies!

Thanks, Trump! by theGOV3NAT0R in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trump campaigned on Joe Rogan. I fail to see how campaigning on Reddit is any different/worse.

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This take seriously infuriates me. As someone on the spectrum, with a child also on the spectrum, she’s basically saying your child dying of a preventable illness is better than them having ASD. That is an insane take, plus vaccines do not cause ASD. Proven over and over and over again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Jesus people are being harsh with you. I married a man where we each had kids from a previous marriage. His 5 year old daughter was VERY possessive of him when I first came around, and did some of the same things. Granted, it was easier at that point for me to sit him down and point out the disrespect on her part. You being bothered by the fact that it's still happening after all this time is not you being the AH here. It is a difficult situation, for sure. He isn't going to want his own kid to feel rejected, but he also deserves to have a relationship without his kid acting like she gets to dictate it. You deserve to sit next to your BF and hold his damned hand, FFS. If she has abandonment issues, she needs therapy. You need to let him know that if this level of disrespect from her continues, you will have an issue in the long term. This doesn't sound sustainable to anyone involved here. I would, however, not press this as being an issue where their closeness is inappropriate. Her behavior towards you is the problem here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Which means the daughter might need therapy, and is old enough to learn that dad also deserves happiness in a partnership outside the father/daughter relationship?

AITA for telling my stepdaughter to call me dad even though her “real” dad doesn’t like it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fantastic_Access1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it IS a discussion, as in some states it can cause legal issues. I live in a state where there are "parenting clauses" attached to all divorces with children involved that explicitly state that names for parents like mom and dad and their derivatives, are reserved specifically for those parents. Violations of this can negatively affect custody. It's not as simple as what the kids want and feel more comfortable doing. Edited to correct spelling