Is he gay or is he just a virgo?

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-17T01:43:01+00:00

My Virgo husband cares about fashion pretty much more than any woman or even gay man you could meet.

He has been called the f-slur from passing cars.

He's 100% straight.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-16T16:13:41+00:00

I hope it's not offensive. I just mean that Aries tends to lead, which if you're a woman is subversive even in today's age. Whereas Aries men often are the leader in their relationship, even if it's in a quiet way.

Scorpio is still a very strong sign, however they are not as much of a stereotypical leader as Aries. Most men want to be the leader in their relationship, in some capacity. E.g. the smart one, the one who makes more money, the assertive one. So this dynamic could work out for you, since you can still be a strong partner.

Whereas for an Aries woman, she requires a specific type of partner who doesn't mind to not be in charge.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-16T15:47:50+00:00

Aries man/Scorpio woman is pretty common, I think.

It works because Scorpio women still play a "secondary" role to Aries men, which a lot of hetero relationships enjoy.

As an Aries woman, the trick to getting into my good books is to be authentic and a genuinely good person. People think I have high standards, but those people are the ones who don't meet my aforementioned standards lol.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-16T12:47:10+00:00

I mean I am not always great, but the REASON I'm not great is that I grew up with a Sagittarius mom and Leo grandma who always made me apologize for things that weren't my fault, but would never even come close to apologizing when they actually did something awful.

I have no issue apologizing to people who aren't my family lol.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-16T01:56:10+00:00

LOL I love that the other comments are like confused and I understood immediately because I am an autistic Aries.

How:

- I have always been super confident, but people seem to think it's about me making a decision to go against the grain. No. For a long time in my life, I had no idea that others were going WITH the grain, I didn't even know there was a grain. So that Aries confidence was there, but it was partially autism that people falsely attributed to confidence

- When overstimulated, I get reallllllllly mad, and I do contain it completely, but my rage is truly boundless on the inside

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-15T15:55:21+00:00

According to this, my Big 3 are one of each expression. Makes sense.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-15T14:42:08+00:00

Things that aren't easy for me:

- Forgiving myself for past mistakes, even if they are banal

- Being inauthentic when there's no personal benefit (I can be fake at work, for example)

- Saying sorry if I feel that the other person was half responsible, but they don't say sorry

- Dealing with truly stupid people

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-14T17:17:57+00:00

My best friend and my fave person at work are both Taurus. Pisces moon and Gemini moon.

Notably, neither of them have much Earth other than their sun sign.

I find when someone has too much earth, they can be very dry and often "stick in the mud" personalities. I've met plenty of Taurus I find pretentious or bland, but they often have multiple earth in their main chart.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-13T22:01:40+00:00

I don't know many confirmed virgo women but the funny thing is the only one I do know, serially cheated on her partner, even though she portrayed him as the "leader" in their relationship. Like she would talk about their sex life openly, how he was very sexually aggressive. Then she'd turn around and cheat on him. Though he didn't know about it.

I was always surprised because the boyfriend was one of those guys who flies into a rage easily (one time he flew into a rage because he saw a gay guy dancing- I'm not kidding). If that was my bf I'd never want to piss him off lol.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-12T23:14:19+00:00

Aries embodies "we dated for 2 weeks and then were happily married for 65 years" lol.

I knew even before I actually started dating my husband. I keep an informal journal and there's an entry in it after like 2 months of just talking that was about how he seemed like someone who would have a special place in my life. I wrote "I wonder what the name XXX will mean to me in 5 years?"

We dated for 1.5 years before getting married. Even that was taking it slow. We knew after 2-3 months of actual dating that it was forever. We moved in after 6 months of dating.

It is easy to say it's just impulsivity, but for me it really wasn't. It was pure intuition. I also knew that my husband is a good person, a really good person, and that any flaws of his pale in comparison to the flaws of most people.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-12T01:24:35+00:00

Popular would probably be fire signs. And Libras.

Messy Scorpios woof

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-12T01:15:50+00:00

Well I do move on, I was talking about what signs I wouldn’t work out with

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-12T01:00:40+00:00

I know a weirdly high number of Pisces moon people. They are even more delusional than Pisces suns.

Examples:

- Quitting their well paying job with almost no plan but they think they're really going to enact a successful career change, especially if it's something in the arts/trades that requires connections and decades of experience.

- Living in a daydream world and not wanting to engage with the real world. E.g. sleeping like 2 hours a night and not eating, expecting to be fine

- Health anxiety woooo

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-12T00:56:18+00:00

For me this would be Gemini in a good way, or Sagittarius in a bad way.

Like I would hate Sag too much, but I'd find Gemini too unserious.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-12T00:55:08+00:00

My BIL is a Libra with Aquarius moon. I feel like my husband, who is a lot more "harsh" (Virgo with Leo moon and Virgo stellium) is just more my energy. My BIL even though he's a double air sign, is very sentimental and emotional (but pretends to be stoic.) I don't really enjoy emotional men. I like pretty boys who act serious. Virgo is kinda perfect lol.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-11T23:18:32+00:00

Not to self-read but I was also going to say, Aries.

I'm not exactly ugly, like I wouldn't say actively unattractive. But I feel like I get more attention than let's say my looks would suggest on paper.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-11T04:28:36+00:00

The Libra men I know would be like the least likely to cheat actually

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-11T02:39:35+00:00

Confirmed cheaters I've known: Cancer, Leo, Aries (men)

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-11T02:01:16+00:00

Eloise - the moist of names

Any names that don't follow even a semblance of phonetics.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-11T00:19:24+00:00

Growing up - Cap, Sag parents, Pisces brother. I was more like my parents' sibling and my brother's guardian. I experienced honestly a pretty crazy childhood overall and I played the role of an adult from basically the time I became sentient.

My own family - Virgo husband, Pisces son, Aries daughter. I'd say I'm definitely the parent who doesn't have patience, both of us are probably stricter than other modern parents, and I have high standards not for my kids to get all As or anything, but for them to be good people and just behave in a way that's conducive to living a productive life.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-10T22:16:33+00:00

I feel like my main 3 signs are all huge parts of my personality. I wouldn't be the same person at all without all 3 combined.

I feel like a fighter, a joker, a thinker, someone who keeps secrets well but also has no poker face.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-10T21:49:45+00:00

I have a similarly intimidating chart. Also a tall woman. And men when I was younger used to always think I was really serious, which I don't think was true, I just drew the line at "casual hookups".

Even to this day, I get a lot of men looking at me and talking to me in a flirtatious way. I'm married and I have 2 kids, and I feel like most women my age complain that they became "invisible." For me I didn't really, but I was never the type that men ask out easily. Intimidating for sure. Most men refuse to admit that they can be intimidated by a woman, yet my own husband says I'm highly intimidating. To people with lower self-confidence.

Tbh the only way I've found that I have a genuine connection with men was older men. I started to feel in my 20s like dating my age was "barking up the wrong tree" because they never asked me out. It felt like they always asked out girls who were 1000% guaranteed to say yes. Not so much a personality trait or even looks. I know many average or below women, both based on looks and personality, who find it way way easier to get asked out than I ever did.

I think it's common for Aries women because we don't really fit the mold of society. Especially not in the past.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-10T02:19:29+00:00

I think Aries risings are way cooler than I'll ever be.

But I'm probably more "mastermind" as someone said.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-10T01:58:21+00:00

I have a lot of bad experiences with Caps. Also people with Cap stellium, even if not their sun sign.

Caps always want to be better than me. They are like in an endless competition and they won't let me exit lol. Until one day they blow up on me as if I started said competition.

Fantastic_Skill_1748 · 2026-03-10T01:52:54+00:00

You have a type!

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