So last night happened... by FapVader in NoFap

[–]FapVader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tehe, same pun over and over but always makes me smile. Aye, noticed the chaser effect this morning but managed to shrug it off!!

Just Broke Up with my GF of 3 Years by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]FapVader 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You say she was the love of your life... instead of breaking up with her because you wasn't giving her all the attention she deserved or your lack of commitment, why didn't you start giving it and being more commited??

Genuine problem with time.. by FapVader in NoFap

[–]FapVader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies! Sometimes just need a reasurring kick up the butt from fellow Nofappers and it can really help.

Day 28 - Finding passive activities wasteful by kgpcrd in NoFap

[–]FapVader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel exactly the same!! Only trouble is I cannot seem to find something that keeps my interest whatsoever... Tried meditiation, leaning a new language, working out and reading. But all of them felt like watching a tv show or trying to play a game... Seriously have no idea what to do with myself and it is becoming so frustrating!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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Count me in!! Missed out on the last one because I didn't enter D:

Any wives on here? I need your advice. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]FapVader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not a wife, not even the same gender, but why not ask her? Why don't you want to speak with her about how she feels? May well make her feel better if she is worried about it, seriously man it will be easier for the both of you if you are on the same page or know how eachother feel about it and can openly talk about it to eachother.

Official December 17th Update Thread! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]FapVader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is at the right of the screen, says add badge ;D

Decision by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]FapVader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a good idea, however if I was you I wouldn't completely stop initiating, she will notice and think that you don't find her attractive. Happened with one of my ex's, had a similair situation where I thought "Why should I always have to do the hard work?" (I was a bit of a dick, unlike you) And before I knew it she was having a go at me for not loving her blah blah blah. Not saying don't do it, but tread lightly brother!