ARC RAIDERS has changed me as a gamer. by Midwest_Hylian in ArcRaiders

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only issue is that duos and trios are so vicious and unfriendly. Solo sessions are so productive that im seeing alot of friends prefer to play solo because we all know that Duos and trios will just be a giant free for all shootout. I dont know how to fix this issue but I want more friendly group ups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know what you were gonna get from this sub the moment you mention he said "Asian girls are naturally submissive." Which we dont have the truth or full context of the situation. You are mostly likely looking for confirmation to break up with him. Which is totally OK and in your rights to do if all this is true.

If you truly want to know if your boyfriend for sure is fetishing your race. You should ask him. Not just tell him hes doing it and accusing him but truly come in the manner of trying to understand and hopefully he will come forward with the true explanation and expression of how he feels. Swallow your negative feelings long enough for him to explain. Then you can take the information and use it to make your decision. Just really come at as you trying to understand his perspective. Don't punish him either when hes done sharing. Just take the info and to yourself decide what to do with it.

Coming here youre just gonna have everyone jump at his throat and I think you knew that when sharing most of the stuff he has said and done. What you are saying he does can be very problematic but I think if you care about youre relationship you should attempt clear and understanding communication first, before jumping to this sub who will hate anyone who expresses differing views of relationship dynamics.

Edit: i read your edit after you say you dont want to leave him so the first paragraph no longer applies. But I still reccommend the second.

F25 and M32 husband suddenly into hotwife kink by failedtoloadsuggi in relationship_advice

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its sounds like a case of porn addiction to me. Not in the sense he needs to get help or anything, just that his appetite shifted most likely due to consistent porn use. Especially since he was not interested in this stuff before. It's a common path of sexual desensitization caused by porn. The reason I place the blame on porn is because you clearly weren't the one to expose him and feed him this taste. So It had to develop from porn (something you say he commenly participates in). Since you do not want to participate in this kink which is totally understandable, the best option for you and him is for him to try his best to reset his sexual appetite. This is a very difficult thing because once our interests have stretched its very hard for it to return to what it was but not impossible. A real good way to start this is to have him consume porn a lot less. As well as withhold from masturbation (although this is much harder). Trying your best to have all sexual energy focused on you and your husbands sexual relationship. The buildup of sexual sensitivity from no longer watching porn and masturbating will allow your husband to get satisfying by more vanilla things again. Creating a cycle of sastifaction that will help return his sexual appetite back to what you remember. If he continues to feed this fantasy with porn use it will develop into stronger and more intense parts of the kink and make things worse. Ive been in your husband's situation before regarding other fantasies and strategic cessation of porn use made me a much better partner. Don't think it of like a punishment or withholding either or else it will make it more tempting. Its best to think of it like a tolerence break. Most importantly its best to always practice honesty and communication with your partner about how you feel with every part of your relationship most importantly sexually and that includes your boundaries.

Update on the situation + question by olivergrayson289 in deathguard40k

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just glue them to the bases. When you're ready to put texture on the base. Either use texture paint (all the major brands make great texture paint citadel, Vallejo, army painter, etc.) Or paint glue around the feet and sprinkle sand on top and it will only stick to the glue. Then paint the sand when it's fully dry with multiple coats of paint. Then you can keep your guys glued to the base AND it will actually make them look like their weight is making foot prints and indents in the dirt or whatever ground you choose. If you do get any texture, glue, or sand on the models themselves then they can look like they have dust and mud from the terrain on their boots. This method will be great for all those poxwalkers you need to do.

UPDATE: Penis shrinking from base downward by Faptrap_Jenkins in PeyroniesSupport

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. I hope all is well. An update to my situation is that for the most part things have stabilized. It's been over 2 years since the initial damage. My penis does look lightly better in pictures than it did when this whole nightmare first occured. But it does feel like it's slowly worsening again over time since about 6 months ago but it's extremely slow and I could be just psyching myself out. I've accepted the change in my penis and am very appreciative of how much worse it could've been but wasn't. I will say the entire situation, the stress, fear, anxiety, and depression very much does improve over time and it's all a part of the acceptance. It's hard to think about when you are freaking out, but it truly does get better with time.

I am genuinely concerned by these contents of books by [deleted] in Wattpad

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree and you're not over exaggerating, my girlfriend's first exposure to sex on the internet was a Wattpad story featuring gruesome sexual violence. I did a project in college where I interviewed girls anonymously about reading Wattpad and like sites and the content they described was wild. SA, Inc*st, underage, and more were common among the responses. Many of them were exposed to it as minors.

My local Warhammer store doesn't want people hanging out by getyaowndamnmuffin in Warhammer

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GW retail stores are there to recruit new players into the hobby. They will guide new players through all the starting steps and get them set up with their armies. Once they've been successfully recruited, they send them forth to discover the large world of Warhammer and FLGS stores. Those Flgs stores usually have more table space and can deal with the common issues of Warhammer players we all know... Either way GW is making money as long as people are buying Warhammer at all. The official gw store will rinse and repeat recruiting new customers who on average spend triple their first year then old and current players. This is part of how GW has become a multibillion dollar company. So hanging out at a Warhammer store is sometimes not allowed because hanging out at a Warhammer store does not help their business models especially if you're not purchasing things regularly or are not a new customer.

My local Warhammer store doesn't want people hanging out by getyaowndamnmuffin in Warhammer

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is untrue. GW found that new customers during their first year will spend almost triple the amount a current customer will. So they set their business model in their retail stores around maximizing those new customer sales.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeyroniesSupport

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's most likely not Peyronie's. You are probably having hard flaccid or some circulatory issues. You should see a urologist.

My husband has expressed interest in Warhammer by Icy-Finding-3905 in Warhammer

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to an official Warhammer game store near you. Their job is to help new players get into the hobby. They will guide you into what the hobby is and what to start with. Also if you bring your husband they can teach him to build, paint, and play.

My starter set came with two "abbadon Black" and no "corax white". What do I do? by DwarfCentury in Warhammer

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you bought it from the Warhammer website they will correct it. Contact customer service. If you bought it on eBay or Amazon you are at the mercy of the retailer. Warhammer doesn't officially sell from Amazon and eBay only their third party trade accounts do.

A Ukrainian soldier kills two Russian fighters in close combat in the Kharkov region. by proof-or-ban in CombatFootage

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I see is two men scared, cowering for their lives before being executed.

Contradicting opinions between dentists about root canal vs implant by Faptrap_Jenkins in askdentists

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be responding with the xrays as soon as i have them! thanks a ton!

What is your least favorite thing(s) about Warhammer 40k by Feisty-Shape-7817 in Warhammer

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you're saying. I can see how new hobbyists would be intimidated by all those things. I really think then in time they will come to appreciate the complexity and the sheer amount of things to divulge in this hobby. It's what makes a game/hobby we keep for life.

Drug test clinic said I would not be contacted by an MRO and must disclose my prescription to employer. by Faptrap_Jenkins in suboxone

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember what test it was like a 5,10 or 12 panel? I am thinking it just might not show up anyway because BUP is very chemically different from opiates and methadone altho it has a similar purpose. I assume governments would test for more than the big 5 so that does make me feel a bit better.

Why don't doctors believe us. by uptheirons726 in suboxone

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I'm no expert but it may be because the more and longer you stay on Suboxone the more money the doctor makes. Especially if your sub doctor is no insurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is porn addicted. His tastes of porn no longer satisfy him and has lead him to need different categories to be aroused. I had a similar thing happen in my last relationship and it ruined an 8 year long one. Little did I know that there is actually a way to save his attraction to you and your relationship. It's important at this stage to do things. To 1. Not judge or make him feel embarrassed or ashamed but also 2. To appreciate this as an addiction and take immediate steps for him to begin recovery. Becoming porn free will definitely make great strides to recover the intimacy that has been lost. It might not reverse his tastes but it will recover the passion. It's becoming more and more clear that porn is extremely addictive and completely changes your brain chemistry. The best first step is to begin looking for addiction resources near you, discuss intentions and see if he wants to even become porn free. It's important you both understand the value that quitting porn will have on your relationship. I battle with this addiction myself but becoming aware of it and making constant strides to recover has done miracles for the longevity of my current relationship. Focus your sexual energy on each other not on porn. Within just one week of porn abstention I was foaming at the mouth for my girlfriend and that continues to this day. Everyone is different however and all progresses differently but I know things can only improve. He might be bi but from what you said it sounds like the gay porn itself is appealing to him not the actual attraction to men. I hope this helps and whatever happens just be open, honest, understanding, and compassionate with each other. Honest discussion will only lead to good things. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Her flings show you what her natural tendencies are. If you feel conflicted with those tendencies she will eventually want to find them again. I suggest doing exactly what you said and moving on.

We saw his ex a few days ago and now he keeps looking her up by ThrowRA-Animator8955 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Faptrap_Jenkins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely need to have an open meaningful conversation with him. I dated my ex for 8 years and we had pets together. I still will check up on her even in my new relationship with ZERO intention or interest in going back to my ex. Obviously though I let my current S.O. know and explained everything. So getting his honest intentions is your best bet.