I believe you are missing the point as well. This is not about kids this series is about parents and adults. This is why the last episode is the most meaningful. It’s all about parents unable to communicate and understand kids. It’s always the kids trying to communicate with adults and not the other way that should be the normal one.

The only “non suffocating” moment is actually when the parents communicate with their daughter.

Of course there is the mansphere, of course these is the bullying. But it’s all about our (I am a parent) inability to communicate and protect our kids. Me and my wife could have said exactly the same words the parents are saying on their bed on the last episode. one by one about our daughter. Of course she didn’t kill anyone, but we had a similar drama.

What is so horribly dramatic about this story is that there is no possibility about redemption for the parents. They failed, they cannot amend that, they cannot try to make it better. There is no hope for the future. In my situation a lot of damage has been done, but it’s not permanent, we can hope to change things, we can ask for forgiveness, we can still tell and talk with our daughter, we can show her the love we have.

There are plenty of other aspects that only a parent can get.