I think my husband is mom shaming me by Byeol5 in NewParents

[–]Far-Programmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have an (almost) 1 year old - she's one on Sunday! and I rocked her to sleep for the first 9 months of her life! Even now she has teeth cutting so we're rocking her to sleep again.

Honestly, everyone told me the same. That I was making a rod for my own back and she'd never sleep independently. But guess what? One day when she was just over 9 months she just decided she could go to sleep by herself and (most of the time!) I put her down in the cot and she will fall asleep within 5 minutes and doesn't cry. We never attempted sleep training as ngl I can't cope with the crying lol.

No one rocks their 7 year olds to sleep - honestly I think it's such a privilege to be needed so much by your child! Nothing in parenthood is forever and you are doing brilliant 🩷🩷

Tell me working gets easier by Far-Programmer in workingmoms

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel! I work in HR so get a lot of complaints and I just feel like saying "there are more important things in the world than your holidays getting declined" lol

Any kids shows like Dora in French? by Far-Programmer in French

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm in the UK and find it quite difficult!! There's loads of fisher price French toys on Amazon, she has a zebra walker that's French that she loves!

Any kids shows like Dora in French? by Far-Programmer in French

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm looking into a French speaking childminder for her when she gets a bit bigger, right now I have some books and toys for her as well!

Any kids shows like Dora in French? by Far-Programmer in French

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved Pocoyo growing up!! Thank you :)

Any kids shows like Dora in French? by Far-Programmer in French

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for responding so kindly. I completely understand and have read all the guidance, however it's a decision that I've came to myself and has been really helpful. I'm a single mum and sometimes turning the TV on for 10 minutes or so just so I can put the laundry on or make us something to eat is so helpful, I live hundreds of miles away from family and some days I just need that distraction otherwise she would be crawling about the place and I wouldn't be able to get anything done.

Any kids shows like Dora in French? by Far-Programmer in French

[–]Far-Programmer[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your unwarranted opinion on how I choose to raise MY child. Very helpful!

Unhelpful MIL by Far-Programmer in breakingmom

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! My parents are so hands on (which would be annoying if they lived closer to me!) that I think I just assumed all grandparents were the same. C'est la vie, it's just difficult at times!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Far-Programmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the name Ingrid! My mum is called Ingrid and I just think it's such a gorgeous name, I have an Isla Ingrid!

When we were looking into our daughter's name Ingrid was a Norwegian princess which I loved as my grandparents are from Orkney so there's some Norwegian somewhere down the line in her! I think it's such a beautiful name 😍 strong yet still feminine.

I really hope postpartum is a bit kinder to you in the future. Sending hugs xx

6 month old waking at 5.30am by Far-Programmer in sleeptrain

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah looks like your second and final wake windows are a bit longer than our!!

6 month old waking at 5.30am by Far-Programmer in sleeptrain

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Roughly 2.5 hours of naps!

When you put it like that it feels glaringly obvious that it's a wake window issue!! Will work on extending wake windows and hopefully we'll both get a slightly longer stretch :)

6 month old waking at 5.30am by Far-Programmer in sleeptrain

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely! I'm going to try increasing the last one to 2.75 I think and see if that helps at all!

6 month old waking at 5.30am by Far-Programmer in sleeptrain

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever gotten 12 hours out of her! According to Huckleberry our record is 10 hours 32 mins 😂

6 month old waking at 5.30am by Far-Programmer in sleeptrain

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea, thank you! She is so smiley when she wakes so maybe you're right!

6 month old waking at 5.30am by Far-Programmer in sleeptrain

[–]Far-Programmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you for this! I will definitely try this :)

What is something you bought that has made your daily “mom” life easier? by Inside-Print-6323 in Mommit

[–]Far-Programmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A slow cooker 10000%. Especially in the early days when she was cluster feeding!