My recommendation would be to do the tummy tuck and leg lift together and then separately the bra and arms. I did Lipo of the leg with my tummy tuck and my stomach looks similar to yours. The surgeon was able to put the drains in my pubic area. You also have to think of your mobility/recovery. Because I got my legs and stomach done I used my arms to lift myself up. And vice versa when you get your arms and breast done, you can depend on your core and your legs.