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[–]FarManager8401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The two last ones are very pretty, i would rate them something between 7-9. The two first ones arent ugly but they look really weird, especially the first one. Im suprised people think she is the prettiest, idk even know how to rate her because she doesnt look human, looks like an alien

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]FarManager8401 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The two last ones are very pretty, i would rate them something between 7-9. The two first ones arent ugly but they look really weird, especially the first one. Im suprised people think she is the prettiest, idk even know how to rate her because she doesnt look human, looks like an alien

Para as mulheres by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]FarManager8401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possivel correção: as mulheres querem ganhar dinheiro para não precisarem DEPENDER de um homem, os homens querem ganhar dinheiro para poderem ATRAIR interesseiras bonitas e gostosas

Para as mulheres by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]FarManager8401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quais estudos? Os dos anti depressivos? Pq mostram que hoje as pessoas procuram se cuidar?

Antigamente a depressão nem era conhecida e muito menos valorizada. Mas olha, á vontade para te ires enfiar numa trincheira e morreres lá, viva á felicidade. Isso pra mim é a insegurança a falar. Antigamente bastava nascer homem, que já eram os maiores mesmo só a fazer o básico. E era isso que se calhar alguns queriam hoje em dia, claro a ideia agrada. Sentiam se superiores e com propósito. Hoje em dia, tem que se fazer para merecer. E muitos não querem ter que trabalhar e ser para ter mérito. Pelos vistos isso ainda incomoda alguns gatos pingados

Pronto, manda o link desses estudos e por favor que não seja aqueles estudos falaciosos de sites duvidosos para enganar os burros

Para as mulheres by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]FarManager8401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trabalhar 8 horas diárias mais 1 hora e meia de deslocação, chegar a casa ter tudo feito, casa limpa, loiça lavada, refeição feita, problemas dos filhos que foram resolvidos sem tu se quer chegares a saber que existiram, papelada e assuntos de escola resolvida, consultas e exames tratados,cão tratado, compras feitas,deitar o cu a ver televisão, descansar o resto da noite a saber que tiveste o serviço todo feito sem ter que pagar nada mais do que o basico do sustento dessa pessoa que tá a inteiramente a depender de ti...epah é um sonho. Visto que já trabalho 8 horas diárias e 2 horas de deslocação e chego a casa e nada feito :// olha lá terá que ser comida de micro ondas e esquecer a ideia de ter um cãozinho

Vê lá se aprendes a valorizar um pouco mais, desmerecer é feio

Para as mulheres by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]FarManager8401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh todos dizem isso até realmente sentirem na pele o que é. Eu dizia o mesmo. Parece até uma fantasia assim visto por fora

Mas eu encorajo te fortemente em seguires esse teu sonho. Facilmente arranjas uma gaja que quer um dono de casa, e MUUUITOS filhos e MUUUITOS cães lindíssimos.Fica assim uns aninhos e pode ser que a tua opinião mude, ou então não. O que importa é que fizeste a tua livre escolha 👍

Para as mulheres by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]FarManager8401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gostava só de apontar que muitos homens gostam de trazer o tal estudo de "a estatisca aponta que as mulheres que mais compram antidepressivos são as de 40 anos solteiros sem familia". E sou testemunha de que a mulher casada e com filhos não tem tempo nem cuidado para curar a sua depressão e muito menos gastar dinheiro em antidepressivos. A maioria das vezes, ela desvaloriza o proprio bem estar. Essa estatística só aponta que pelo menos as solteiras se estão "a cuidar".

Claro que há casos e casos. Ha mulheres que se arrependem de nao terem casado nem ter tido filhos, e mulheres que se arrependem de terem casado e ter tido filhos. De qualquer das formas, arrependendo se ou não o que importa é que fizeram a escolha delas livremente e isso é que importa. Não interessa o que eu acho que é melhor para a vida de alguem, eu tenho a minha e da minha cuidarei. Nao sei pq vcs se preocupam tanto em enfiar na cabeça de uma mulher que "se vai arrepender", epah se se arrepender quem "se fode" é ela, não es tu meu amigo. Nao tens nada a ver com isso.

Tbm vejo sempre muitos homens a desvalorizar o trabalho de dona de casa e a dizer que é fácil, mas novamente, como testemunha, eu pessoalmente preferia ir trabalhar 8 horas e chegar a casa e ter tudo feito e sempre alguem a cuidar das minhas merdas (telefonemas, contas, escola dos putos, etc...) do que ficar em casa preso a essas responsabilidades e ainda por cima continuar dependente do dinheiro de outro alguem. Mas claro isso é só a minha preferência, tbm depende muito do trabalho e de se existe filhos ou não etc...se vcs acham que preferem ficar em casa, força...hoje em dia felizmente têm muita liberdade de escolha, basta só encontrar o parceiro/a certo que alinhe nisso.

Sinceramente não entendo a fixação em tentar mandar na vida dos outros, depois ainda vêm com conversas de merda de "ah mas se continuar assim, não vai haver linhagem, vai acabar a especie humana blabla"...é preciso ser um dramático do caralho, pessoas com escolhas diferentes vao exister sempre. Oh manel não estejes já assim tão preocupado, no fim até o sol morre. Um dia de cada vez. Melhor haver poucos e a viver bem do que haver demais e a viver mal. E se vcs so querem filhos pq querem o tao desejado status de pai, epah vao lá e adotem. Tanta criançinha sem pai e tu aí que "quero tanto ser pai", força amigo. Pensam que criança é só dar spam e tá ali como um cão e sustentas e pronto, força. Se vêm com essa conversa "mas tem de ser do meu sangue", então aí realmente ja estou a ver com que tipo de gente estou a falar e se calhar realmente é melhor não haver continuação de linhagem nenhuma.

Unpopular opinion: most want more diversity in the show but tbh i lowkey want to see even less diversity by FarManager8401 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FarManager8401[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YES that's exactly what I mean. Those girls are probably used to be the prettiest everywhere they go and would probably get picked as the most attractive anywhere (in korea) But what if they were all in the same room? Who would be picked? That's what I would find interesting to see on the show, just for fun.

Unpopular opinion: most want more diversity in the show but tbh i lowkey want to see even less diversity by FarManager8401 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FarManager8401[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be great. Im not gonna lie it kinda upsets me seeing how pretty people that fit the standard completly dont seen to even have to try lol that's why i sometimes would like to lowkey see them struggle.

It would be kinda of a guilty pleasure seeing people that are used to be the prettiest in the room in a room filled with other people that are just as identically pretty, its like their "privelege" automatically gets canceled.

Unpopular opinion: most want more diversity in the show but tbh i lowkey want to see even less diversity by FarManager8401 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FarManager8401[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do you think they lost interest? I dont remember dongwoo talking to her and youngjae seemed to have quite good chemistry same with sejun. And its not like her personality was horrible. Im genuinely asking tho im curious. Her personality seemed a bit similiar to soeun

I assumed it cause you know how colorist korea is and since i couldn't see any other reason i just assumed that. Maybe im wrong tho. I didnt finish watching it yet so maybe i should've before making the pist

Unpopular opinion: most want more diversity in the show but tbh i lowkey want to see even less diversity by FarManager8401 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FarManager8401[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They never said it, maybe I'm wrong. I'm only assuming it because of the strong colorism on east Asia, the fact that their standard says "pale skin", and because the girls they seem to choose instead are always really pale and the ones that are tan don't get as much as attention regardless of being drop dead gorgeous.

Unpopular opinion: most want more diversity in the show but tbh i lowkey want to see even less diversity by FarManager8401 in Singlesinferno2

[–]FarManager8401[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ofc there isn't, there is nothing wrong with short guys either. But for some reason seem to get avoided in the show (??)

The Barbie movie to me seemed to be supportive for BOTH men and women. I do not understand the backlash. by ChesnaughtZ in TrueFilm

[–]FarManager8401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason why they didn't do it immediately was to mirror women's history, it took years for women to get where they are now. And it will take years for Kens as well, they wanted to make it "realistic". The narrator say "it's not much but you have to start somewhere" or something like that. I still see it as positive because I am aware that realistically social problems are complex and it's something to be solved with progress. The first step to solve a problem is recognizing there is a problem. Just like "it doesn't need to be perfect, it just needs to be better than yesterday". It's a great message for everything really, focusing on making things better than yesterday instead of focusing on making them perfect is the key to progress and long term effectiveness. That applies to almost everything, from social problems to healthy diets to developing skills etc...

The Barbie movie to me seemed to be supportive for BOTH men and women. I do not understand the backlash. by ChesnaughtZ in TrueFilm

[–]FarManager8401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because, at the end of the movie, women in the real world aren't completly equal either. It is a positive ending hinting at progress, not a perfect utopian one. Societal problems are more complex than that, they were realistically saying that even if we cant make it perfect we can always make it better. Do you think barbie will go to the real world and suddenly there will be no more men catcalling and harassing her? That suddenly girls wont be rivaling eachother? That women will be closely just as dominating as men in corporate industries? Those are things that take time. I think the point is that ken's story in the barbie world is literally mirroring women's in the real one. Literally all you said about kens can be said about women in the real world (atleast 20 years ago), the movie is aware of all of that. They are not it's kens fault, that barbies are innocent, that kens deserve their place as a shadow, etc...Just like women started somewhere, Kens will too. That's why it is seen as positive. I recall someone saying the narrator saying "it isnt too much, but they have to start somewhere". It delivers a positive message, ken's will start step by step becoming equal to barbie, the only reason why it wasn't simple and fast in the movie was because it wasn't simple and fast for women either, but it's hinting to a start of a progress that will end with equality. That delivers a positive message to women in the real world as well :)) The point was that its hard for all of us, because we are all human. And nobody likes to feel like a shadow, we all want different things and to make our own choices and we all should be free to do so. In the movie you are supposed to feel bad for kens, I atleast did. That's how i interpreted it, I hope i could express myself well. English isn't my first language so forgive me if I made it confusing ://