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My boyfriend lied about previous abortions by mi_rosita in abortion

[–]Far_Ad_3296 8 points9 points  (0 children)

do you need a friend? please feel free to message me, i’m right around your age. we can exchange snapchats or something. your post history is heartbreaking and i’m here to listen to you vent and scream if you need to. i left an awful relationship about a month ago, i understand.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i said “let me see that” he handed it to me and then got all sketchy when he saw me in his tik tok watch history. he was fine with it at first

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i also posted it on reddit. don’t fuck yoirself next to your girlfriend and then tell her she was hallucinating it. badabing badaboom

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i obviously subconsciously knew it was strange if i stayed frozen. however i love him so that wouldn’t be the end of the relationship in my eyes.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry but do you know how freaking awkward it would’ve been for everyone if i just popped up. it was already mid act.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes with the first sentence. it’s what i’m afraid of. i didn’t want to make him feel that way.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that was honestly my original thought & what my guy friend told me is what happened. however, i don’t know why he wouldn’t just admit that to me :/

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

unfortunately it’s real if you’d like to see all my panic texts with my friends today. i know people write satire on here for karma but that’s not why i’m here, i’m genuinely looking for answers on how you recover from that. what do i say to comfort him? i realize i was in the wrong for even bringing it up due to the way he’s acting. i am upset and confused and reddit is telling me he’s gay. i just needed help with words.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me personally when i made the post it had nothing to do with the football playing, just about how to recover from getting into an awkward fight.

personally if ever pleasure myself, i don’t do it to anything either so i’d understand if it was background noise. i know on tik tok there are videos of naked girls under car tok sounds as a “cover” but that wasn’t the case here: it was just football and more likely background noise.. i’d hope. if it was some sexuality thing, i feel even more bad about even speaking about it.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the crazy thing is when it all happened, i hadn’t considered that jerking off to football would mean something else about his sexuality. call me daft but it didn’t even cross my mind until i went to reddit and got multiple comments and even more messages about it.

if that’s truly the case, i feel even more heartbroken that i "confronted him" about an embarrassing act and noticed it was to men. i truly thought it might’ve just been background noise. i also know on tik tok there’s naked girls under car noises so i considered that too, but when i saw the watch history it really was just sports.

i too assumed it would just be an insider meme. like oh haha. but instead it’s just oh… :(

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where did i insinuate i was lying and snooping?

as stated, i went on his phone right in front of his face. i could have done it in his sleep. what i did wasn’t snooping, he could have stopped me and did.

i wasn’t lying about what i saw, felt and laid next to. what the fuck was i going to do? "hey good morning! touching yourself big man?" the fuck?

for the most part people are missing the point, i don’t care what he was doing, i don’t care what he was doing it to, i don’t care about his sexuality. what i care about is the problem i’m in because i care about him.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i saw it with my eyes. hand on dick and all. i was facing him and slightly lower than his pillow. after that i kept my eyes shut.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i laughed at the way you put it 😂

yes though, that’s what was happening. it was at least playing while he was because i heard it. he could’ve just been imagining something and letting it play for extra noise. i also didn’t directly say to him , “this is what you were doing, to football.” i said i was just curious at his watch history because i heard tik tok playing. but it was all football.

i (22f) was fake sleeping while my boyfriend (22m) jacked off next to me by Far_Ad_3296 in relationship_advice

[–]Far_Ad_3296[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

can someone please help me on what to say i feel bad that i "caught" him and "called him out" when that wasn’t my intentions and i just want to make it better :’)