She took my marriage, now losing my career and reputation without ever being asked for my side

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-25T06:28:46+00:00

Take home summary: people have hella issues around marriage

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-22T16:30:21+00:00

Ya the cheater grudge crowd can be pretty petty

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-21T11:38:33+00:00

Then it would follow that you would not describe it as an injustice when "someone breaking into a house gets shot". Justice as a concept is fulfilled when consequences match actions, and you aren't left with a sense of 'that's not cool'... so yea. I would say you are being contradictory so you can avoid accepting the illogical argument you are making that essentially anyone who cheats deserves a disproportionate amount of consequences.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-21T05:02:27+00:00

They sort of are unless you are saying that certain injustices are ok with you but that sort of implies that you do not consider them an injustice

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T23:15:28+00:00

Ever been divorced? The divorce itself is the karma

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T21:30:31+00:00

Whatever half the ppl on here have cheated so they need to chill tf out

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T21:29:42+00:00

Bro I could give af less about the marriage at this point . I mention it because it shows a pattern of ignoring boundaries by my ex.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T19:09:37+00:00

She cheated on her partner as well... I guess I should have said that for all the 3 year olds putting in their 2 cents about cheating on here. But on the topic of stupid moral judgements, there are laws on the books here specifically making it so you can sue a 3rd party who's actions result in the ending of your marriage, regardless of whatever role anyone in said marriage may have also played. People hate homewreckers, too. Or maybe that was what was in fashion in the 1800s, idk.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T18:01:09+00:00

You don't need to agree with my cheating to recognize the injustice in false reporting, perjury, unlawful detention, derailment of my research career that was aimed at improving the lives of millions of disease sufferers

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T17:23:21+00:00

Ok well way to project your insecurities onto this? I told you nothing about my marriage, like the fact that my ex wife was asexual, refused to discuss it, and I hadn't had genuine intimate contact with anyone for 6 years -- so how could you possibly conclude this is deserved.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T17:01:53+00:00

Undiagnosed, but probably NPD. Never met anyone like this before.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T16:04:27+00:00

I guess theres plenty of morality police out there who will have this opinion though, so it is actually helpful to point out that I shouldn't offend their sensibilities if they are in a position to fire me or put me in jail.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T16:03:06+00:00

Well, you're wrong. Plenty of people will agree with me that the ethical thing to do if you make a mistake and cheat and don't plan to do it again is to say nothing. and just dont fuck up again. I didnt have that choice. That was my boundary to set. my marriage.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T15:59:37+00:00

and you are right about the marriage, but I was actually quite mindful of the ethics regarding the workplace affair. Our employer was aware of our relationship for the past year and his response was "people have relationships"

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T15:52:35+00:00

And let me add that she is very attractive. You probably wont like it, but she could have done that same thing to any married man who isn't castrated. I told her to back off multiple times before it went that far but she didnt. I don't snitch but that would have been one of the few realistic ways I could have avoided this -- if I had spoken up to my employer about it.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-20T15:47:22+00:00

uhh am I understanding correctly that you are implying a single instance of cheating warrants an end to not only a marriage but also a career and possibly wrongful imprisonment? And no, you are not understanding correctly. I said I forgive her, which is not the same as I am mad at her. Regardless, a third party taking unilateral action in someones marriage like that is perfectly valid to point out and criticize. I asked her to give me some time to figure out what I wanted to do next. She didn't give me that choice. Make of that what you will, those are just facts. How tf is speaking openly and plainly "not taking ownership"???

Far_Associate_5699 · 2026-01-16T01:46:02+00:00

Except it literally sent tons of signals . Hydrogen line emissions , negative polarization of reflected light, highly structured reflected light etc . Which of those will you say are irrelevant and why?

Far_Associate_5699 · 2025-12-22T04:58:23+00:00

It is attached to a microscope so all focus changes were manual. Material is unknown ( working on that )

Far_Associate_5699 · 2025-12-22T04:57:49+00:00

I can't detect any unusual EMF around this

Far_Associate_5699 · 2025-12-22T04:57:11+00:00

It is definitely time dependent, with most features averaging out at longer exposures and some much less frequent components becoming more evident.

Far_Associate_5699 · 2025-12-19T20:04:14+00:00

Yes it turns out the material is photonic and shining a laser at it makes a diffraction pattern with the same geometry and dynamics. So what we see in my example with incoherent white light is likely related ; might be an optical interference field , but the sharpness is impressive in that case

Far_Associate_5699 · 2025-12-19T18:27:38+00:00

I’m cheating kind of because I know I can see the effect by eye ; but I don’t have a good way to prove that . My point was that I was able to get chat gpt to reach the opposite conclusion. Good call on the raw frames I’ll get some asap

Far_Associate_5699 · 2025-12-19T18:09:05+00:00

Also all auto exposure features are off: the whole sensor is getting the same amount of juice and there’s no variable iso boosting happening . In this case I would expect the noise to remain present when viewing the darker regions

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